I think my b/f is cheating, when he's around me he always turns the ringer on his cell phone off. When it does ring he'll either press ignore or go outside to talk. He says he has alot of female friends but I haven't met anyone of them. Ive caught him in the bathroom talking dirty to another girl,but when I confronted him about it he apologized and said it was a big mistake. He cheated on every girl he's been with and I wonder why would I be different. Should I be worried or am I being paranoid?
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Please read i need help
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Well, you know...once a cheater, forever a cheater. I would suggest to you...get out of that relationship because it will hurt you mentally and emotionally in long run if staying with that cheater.Unless anyone proves me wrong.....I had bad experience like that when I was married to that woman! (I divorced her afterward!)
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**there is not excuse for lying and cheating in any relationship hon, get rid of him, you don't deserve to waste your time on someone who isn't worth it. If you know hes cheated on every girl hes ever been out with, why did you go out with him in the first place? Anyway, dump him and find a nice guy who will concentrate himself on you and not every other female around. **
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I agree, Angel! My first g/f couldn't keep her eyes to herself - we would be on a date, I would say something to her and she'd be off in la-la land looking at the guy behind me. She was meant to be all religious and she started telling everyone I told her she was going to hell. It was funny, for the two facts that I didn't and that my friend said to her, Bronte, do YOU tell people they are going to hell?She replied, "Of course not! That's what Charlie (me) does, and that's why he's going to hell!"Of course, after we stopped laughing she denied it ever happened.
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I didnt know that when i met him he had a girlfriend. He also brings up his female "friends" when we fight he says "see thats why I have female friends because you arent on the same level as iam inellectually,so im never giving them up."
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Girlfriend he is so not worth your time! Ditch this loser and move on with your life before it's too late. There are plenty of guys out there that'll treat you the way you deserve and from what you've said, he's not one of those guys. Get rid of this guy, you deserve so much better than that.
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Thanks, Im starting to re-consider my relationship, Im just not happy, but I don't know why its so hard to leave. Maybe Im afraid of being lonely. Secondly my kids like him and if I break up with him how do I explain that to my daughters. Ages 9,8 and 6
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It would be harder to explain to your daughters why you're still with him, don't you think? Plus, staying with him may give your daughters the tools to rationalize why being with a cheating man is okay.