Disabled and breasts

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Hello all,I am new here! I am disabled and have never seen breasts in real life. Life is hell! I was just wondering if its just me or are other disabled people left out too.Come on ladies, let us have some fun too!!

Hey hon welcome to the boards I have a disabled daughter but she is blind so won't ever see breasts LOL sorry to hear life is hell! not too sure how many other people on the boards have a disability..........are you asking for pictures of breasts by the way, reading your last sentence i don't get it.

Hi,Sorry about your daughter. No, I'm not asking for pics! That isn't the problem.I guess I meant that we are just like everybody else and like what everybody else likes and don't leave us out.

do you mean like wheelchair disabled?

Any nudie bars in your area?

to answer the two questions above, yes and no. I have no ideas what to do. Driving me mad.

Do you have any easy form of transportation in general (can you drive, can you be driven by friends, etc.)? Are you out in the 'burbs or the country?

I don't drive. I have no friends take me places. I live pretty far out. I'm up a creek. I have been trying to find a solution for a long long time!

It seems difficult in general to live in an out-of-the-way place, but very difficult if you're in a wheelchair. Do you live with your family?

Yes, I live my parents. I'll ask them to take me somewhere, yeah right! Oh what the heck, I'm 40. Why not tell it all. Being me is getting worse and worse. Thanks for listening everybody!

Is there any possibility that you could live independently, or do you prefer your present situation (other than issues relating to the subject of this thread)?There's no magical answer. Either you have to get our or someone has to come to you.

This is getting complicated! This is definitely not the proper place for this, I know. If I could leave I would but I have been reminded if I'm somewhere else, I still wouldn't be able to go places, do things, etc. I'd just be locked up in another house. I don't know what to do. Sorry for the off topic stuff.

It's your topic and you can discuss whatever you wish in it.

May we ask how and what form of disability you have? You don't have to say if you don't wish.

Yes, what SDP said. There are people who have very little mobility on their own, iw2sbs, but are able to get out of the house, so I don't really understand your specific situation.

In reply to:Sorry about your daughter. No, I'm not asking for pics! That isn't the problem.I guess I meant that we are just like everybody else and like what everybody else likes and don't leave us out. My daughter is an amazing little girl with more strength than anyone else i know LOLAs for you, you do sound very isolated, one thing i have found about the internet is that, no matter how isolated, or disabled a person is, with specific aids, in the case of disability, the interent, and meeting new people through chat etc is accessable to most. I mean you found us grin I count myself lucky to have a disabled daughter as it has brought disability, and understanding of disabilites into my family and friends and we are all so much better for it. What is it that you want to do, and whats stopping you?

I am breakable. I can get out of the house. If I want to go somewhere, I need help then. That is the problem, no help.I want what everybody else has, family, etc. Someone to make said family is stopping me. Everybody seems afraid of me or something. I'm definitely an outsider in this world.It has been nice being able to write stuff here, keeping things bottled up for so long hasn't been good. Nobody here wants to hear it. So thanks for listening!

I have to admit, before having my daughter, i was afraid of people with disabilities, simply because, i had never been around anyone with a disablility before. I often didn't know what to say, for fear of saying the wrong thing, then fear of not saying anything would make it worse, if you know what i mean.
My daughter goes to a main stream, very very small country school, her peers have grown up with her, in fact for world book day, each class made a 'feely' book for taylor, and her visual impairment teacher has been around the school, letting the kids try on different kinds of 'impairment glasses' not only has this helped them to understand taylor, but also, old people whos vision fail etc etc.
I don't think many people, in general are around people with disabilites, and in such, disabilites cloud the fact that beneath the disability, there is a person, the same as anyone else. The kids in taylors class are not 'afraid' of people with a disability and i think they will be far more caring, and understanding adults. I really hope none of this sounds patronising, as i SO don't mean to be :smile:
Everyone, no matter what disability they have has a right to lead a normal life, family etc etc, i expect taylor to have children of her own, and be a great mum, but, saying that she has a LOT of support where i live. We have acess to a lot of specialist services, and activities, and i know for a fact she will be sky diving when shes older, and they had driving days, especially for the blind HOW SCARY IS THAT LOL.
You have us to talk to now, and feel free to PM me anytime you want to talk about stuff, and not just disabilites hon *big hugs*

I understand about people not knowing what to say and maybe being afraid. If the situation was reversed, I would probably be the same way. I admit it, I am afraid to talk to people. I just wish someone would give me a chance. I don’t ever remember anybody asking me questions about my situation, ask me and I will tell.I believe my downfall started after hs graduation. In hs I was around people and it was cool even though I was an outsider. After hs with everybody going different directions, it was tough. I believe if I had one gf growing up my life would be better today.I do like living where I do; I just wish I had “someone” to hang out with.When I was younger being around kids was easy! When everybody gets older things get tough.It sounds like taylor has great friends and a great family! I am sure she will have a wonderful future! I still have some hope for the future!

maybe you can try one of those online dating services and luckily meet a nice girl. From there on you can get more help, see some breasts, and live life a bit better.

What is your financial situation like, iw2sbs?