Do many of you discuss your past with your current partners? Would you discuss with your current partner that your x had a bigger/smaller penis?Would you discuss with your current partner that your x liked to swallow after a bj?If you do, does it bug you hearing about your partner's past?
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Your past.
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- Yeah, I think it's good to talk about your past and your ex's past. It gives you an idea of where your partner is coming from.2. My current partner told me that her last ex was quite large (and noticably larger than me). It's bound to make you feel insecure for a second, but then you think: Gee she chose me- she really loves me. Her ex may have 8.5 inches, but he hasn't got a pussy to put it in.3. Discussing different techniques is also a good idea. It gives you an idea of what your partner likes.4. Like I said before, you might be insecure for a minute or two, but not after you start to really think about it. After all, you've got the girl (or guy).
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I think quite the opposite. I guess it depends on the person, but the past should be in the past.
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1. Do many of you discuss your past with your current partners?
If they ask.2. Would you discuss with your current partner that your x had a bigger/smaller penis?
If it comes up, I always say that my current is bigger.3. Would you discuss with your current partner that your x liked to swallow after a bj?
No.4. If you do, does it bug you hearing about your partner's past?
Only if their ex has hurt them. -
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I've discussed my past with all but one of my partners (my first )We laugh about my exes size all the time (acorn resting on his balls)Well, all of my guys KNOW how much I like too.And it only bugs me to hear about my first love's current gfs. A fact my best friend has yet to catch on to.
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We believe in openness. She has already told me how she had to break up with this guy cuz he was hung like an ox.Also, We sometimes tell eachother facts about our exes, but never in a negative "Im trying to hurt you" type way.
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I definitely agree with Sexpert. Using either your history or your partner's history against them is bound to create problems in your relationship (it can also really hurt). However, as I said before, I think history can also be used in a constructive way. After all, our past and our memories are a big part of who we are- why deny your partner a part of your life? Just be careful...
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i couldnt enter a serious relationship with anyone without fully disclosing my past. as for the next 2 couldnt comment. never been told about one of my exe's, exe's size, and i wouldnt say anything to a current girfriend about swallowing anyway. it would just seem like i was pressuring her into it. i dont mind hearing about a girlfriends past either. she should be able to feel she could tell me anything but if she desnt want to, its cool