So....it all starts way back in march. I created a myspace account just to catch on to the coolest trend, yada yada. One day...like two days after I create an account, I get a friend request from this girl. I think nothing of it and just add her to my friends list. A couple days later, she messages me on myspace, just to talk..get the basics on me and such. We exchange messages back and forth for a few days then all of a sudden, she stops messaging me. About a week later, she gets my SN from my page and IMs me.We talked for a bit that night. She was extremely shy, so the conversation was a bit frustrating. She IM'd me the next day, as soon as I signed on. Talked a bit again, she started warming up, conversation got alot more interesting. About 3 days later than that, she introduced me to her best friend online. Me and her friend talked for a while. Her friend tells me that the girl wanted to IM me the day she first saw my page, but didnt have the guts to do it. I was kinda flattered that I can make someone that shy lol.About two days later, the girl who i'm interested in, her best friend tells me that shes a bit attracted to me(the best friend). However, she tells me that she wont let it get beyond that, since the girl im interested in REALLY likes me and she cant steal me from her good friend.To the sticky part! We live half way across the country apart from each other. I had already planned on moving to her state, even before talking to her, so that kinda budded my attraction to her. She starts college in September as a freshman. I'm sorta worried about that. I KNOW she really likes me from all the signs I get from her and her best friend(she IMs me as soon as I come online or as soon as she comes back, leaves comments on my page all the time and her best friend tells me she thinks/talks about me all the time). Her friend assures me she is commited and would more than likely keep her feelings for me, even through a year of college.That sorta brings up my dilemma. Should I commit my feelings to her and hope that she keeps me as her #1 guy and hope it blooms when I move to her state next year? orrr Should I just let everything flow the way it should flow here, while im still here?? I have alot in common with this girl and her personality/sense of humor is alot like I want in a girl...but im just a naturally pessimistic person and think that she will forget about me if/when she meets another guy in college.Help a brotha out.
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Long Distance sorta thing....
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Id say forget about it, long distance is a sticky situation, especially from websites. and its just not worth it.
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Just keep things as they are. Don't keep your hopes up or make any unrealistic expectations. If you do end up moving near her and meet, something might happen or not. You'll never know until then.
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I would say forget it, it would never work out.
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Doesn`t your sig say you`re gone ? :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye: :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:
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That's exactly what I was thinking sdp. Thanks.
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You had to put up your 42 KB worth of sig images that take up a good part of my screen just to ask that question, when you understand English well enough to answer that question yourself?