I've been talking to this girl online and I first started talking to her when my friend got her email for me. We've probably talked for a combined 50+ hours online and 5 hours straight in person when I went over to her house. I'm as charming as can be and it seems like we have so many common beliefs and I've said so many things that have made her happy; I meant them to. Tuesday was the three week mark for me talking to her and it seems as though I cant please her anymore. I try so hard but I just don't get anywhere, one time in our conversation I asked her what she really thinks about me and she responded: I can't answer that, I have a boyfriend and my answer probably would not be something he'd like then she said lets just put it this way, I think you're a great guy all together. Her boyfriend was a complete ass to her all last week but they didn't break up and now they've made up. I guess what I'm really trying to ask is what more do I have to do to get into her heart? I was thinking about writing a poem about her and emailing it to her... I just don't know anymore this is bothering me so much.
I'm so confused. Plz help.
She has a boyfriend. Let that relationship end before you start anything. If she really wanted to be with you, she'd be with you.
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Dude, don't push it. Continue being the guy she knows. She sounds very loyal. Her loyalty may be getting in the way of her true feelings, but the best thing you can do is just stick around and keep her in a comfort zone with you. If you start pushing and shoving she may be alienated. Trust me, I've done it.
Just stay friends with her. You shouldn't push someone to break up with other people...unless they need to/want to...let them finish what they have...who knows how long it will be...just stay a true friend...those are always people to lean back on...
Take Care<br />~Aalodar~