What do i do!?

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Ok me and my gf we have been going out for about a month now and were starting to get pretty serious and like maybe twice a month she goes to this like camp ground thing and gets drunk and high with guys and her girl friends and shit, and i told her i dont like her going there and all but she sill goes. And she tells me i should trust her and i know she would never cheat on me when shes sober but people get taken advantage of when there drunk and idk what to doWhat do you guys think i should do

dude it sounds like she is basically getting with other guys if she say that she would never cheat on u sober. maybe u should go there with her and then she won't get with anyone. but if ur cool with that then stay with her.

Well she also said she would never when shes drunk/high and i am going to go with her but i cant this saturday, and i have one of my friends looking after her so if she does i will find out

very interesting. sounds nothing like the atittude from the other posts. She can't control herself when shes drunk buddy. Watch her back. Or maybe you should just trust her. That's what true loves all about.

so wat would u do if u found out that she got with some other guy?

id flip, and she knows that i am very protective, not like obsessive but yah i care alot about her

What do you mean the attitude of the other posts??

Big dumb jock that loves doing/saying stupid things like farting... I like farting too man, its nothing to be ashamed of. Sure, some don't find it a sexual turn on, but hey, we're different. So what!??!

that shit gets so fucking annoying just becasue i play football you call me a dumb jock, seriously stop that shit its annoying idc if your joking with me. Why do you guys hate people who play sports

You're young.. you shouldnt worry about dating now! Plus you start highschool next year.. grade 9.. if she is cheating on you you will find someone new.. and if she isnt.. good luck!

Sorry man, I was just joking. I'm told that my humour can be very offensive though... maybe thats why nobody came to my birthday party.

Thank you pinkranger, yah about highschool some people told me not to go out with her because in highschool i will be with older girls and stuff but i didnt listen to them.

And its alright its just alot of people on here have said that stuff and it really gets to me because im not all that dumb, and i figured you were trying to piss me off

wow. I can see you have some very effective emotions. I'm just shocked that at such a young age all this happens in your life. But I wasn't talking about you dude, chill. At your age (not too long ago) the only thing I worried about was what to wear and trying to keep myself out of trouble for the freakin school year. But hey, I give you your props for trustin your girl. Don't be too protective though. Give her some space or she might start thinking. Trust me I know.

I wasnt really talking to you, more to bobalicous, and thanks for the advice it was much help, and the funny thing is today my gf heard i cheated on her and i flipped out becuz i didnt and idk if she believes me, im a wreck lol

Wow are you serious. Listen dude you need to sit her down and talk about this trust thing. Tell her that if she loves you she has to trust you.

The good news is she believes me, what happened was before i started going out with her i hooked up with this girl just for like a one night stand i guess you could say and then i really seen how she was(a bitch) and i didnt want anything to do with her then started hanging out with my gf now and yah, so the girl i had the stand with told my gfs best friend that a week ago we did shit so my gfs best friend told her and thats why she didnt know what to believe because it was her best friend. And now the girl that said this shit is going to get her ass kicked by all my girl friends and everyone hates her lol so its good now

I don't know about that man. Getting someone beat up always comes back to haunt you. Just saying. Girls remember stuff, then comes revenge.

If she cheats on you burn down her house! Not being able to contol yourself drunk is an excuse. I can manage it no matter how wated I am. Sure I will do stupid stuff but I would never cheat on anyone. Cheating fucking low and there is no need for it. You just need to talk to her and be like hey, you cheat on me and were finished and I will burn down your house.

You don't sound like you're hanging out with very responsible people. Feel free to take a break from your life of partying, because I think in college you will get plenty of chances for that- and it will be legal then, too (after you turn 21, and if you're not doing illegal drugs, of course).I think when people call you a dumb jock, they call you that not just because of sports, but because you sound like the stereotypical jock that's in movies.