Hey you guys Iv been havin girlfriend problems...like my girlfriend is really gorgeous and really smart pretty and nice. We have been goin out for 6 months now. Im really scared that she secretly likes another person but doesnt want to break my heart she says she only loves me but words can only do so much. I get really jelous when I she says this boy is cute blah blah and other kind of stuff about other men. Am i overreacting? She feels like I am to insecure about our relationship and I need to be more trustworthy. Is that true? And also she had a dream that these men came to our school and were really cute and stuff like that and I got angry but came over it after a while. Am i being mad for no reasion? Im just really scared she will like someone else and dump me for him
she hasnt been actin different .. but she wants to go to a club n dance n shit like grinding and stuff..she hasnt done anytthing and im not sayin she is cheating but im wondering if she has thoughts about being with other men and stuff like that..she likes to flirt alot but not to the point it gets intimate but playful
This sounds like jealousy problems on your part, ilovemyboo, since it seems there's no good evidence she is doing anything. Saying that someone is cute is natural, and doesn't mean there's a problem with your relationship. But jealousy can cause a problem, and create what it fears, by driving a wedge between you.
You are a worrier, ilovemyboo. You worry that your girlfriend is pregnant, you worry about your penis size. It's pretty common - about 5% of people are general worriers, always anxious about something. But in this case it will damage your relationship if you let it - perhaps even destroy it.
Trust her. You expect her to trust you - you do the same for her.
thanks for the encouragin words there bud :smile: i got it