Here's the thing. I have gone out with two girls recently after a long stint of singleness. Both were initially into me and then gradually lost interest it seems. Now, maybe I'm jumping the gun here, but it seems like I'm not gonna find someone that likes me and keeps on liking me.
I mean I'm actually releived the relationships were over, because of little stuff about them that rubbed me the wrong way, but the idea of finding someone who actually thinks I'm great to be around and can't stand being away from me is just not seeming possible anymore.
Man, what an awful feeling that people like you less after getting to know you :wink:
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Someone who keeps on liking you
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Oh man buddy don't worry about it. There is someone out there for everyone (except bob, he takes everyone's girl). But don't worry about it. You're gonna get someone who can't stand to not have you there with them. It's probably just this period of time. Or your current location. Also if you think that people can't adapt to you once they get to know you, look inside and see if there's something about you that might seem disturbing to others. Maybe it can change. And if it's not that. Then those who did that to you were just not for you.
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Yeah I would not worry. You will be loved in return for some period of time. I have been through what you are describing, and I found just talking to girls and having lots of friends works out nicely. You feel loved but different type of love, and it is hard, but you have to stay optimistic and positive that everything will work itself out in the end, which it will.