Me and my girl have been going out for 3 months now. The first 2 months were great because we were really sexually active. Then I went to Florida for a week (March break), I come back and all we do is hang out and watch TV. She works like everynight and and goes to school all day, and always says that she's tired or has a headache, so I don't bother doing anything with her. We don't even make out anymore. I guess she could be really tired, but we hardly ever do anything. Do you think she lost interest? I love her more than anything right now and I don't want to lose her. Any advice?
Loss of interest?
She may just be exhausted from work or the rest of her life. The best thing to do would be to talk to her. If there are any problems, it's better to get them out now than to let them fester. Good luck.
Just keep with what your doing...physical stuff isn't all that matters, I think shes actually doing a good thing...possiblye even testing you...to see if you guys can have a verbal relationship. It's usually a good idea. If the only thing good about a relationship is physical...then it probably won't last, my advice...stick with what shes doing...she may get more active eventually...if she doesn't, then u may want to tell her how u are feeling. But its totally your call...
Take Care<br />~Aalodar~
She's just tired. Stick to cuddling for a while.
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...possiblye even testing you...
if u two were having sex alot she could be doing just that. testing u to see if u do ereally care. acually it makes since. u pass she sees u love her, u fail u only wanted the sex.
if that's what she's doing to u. it could be that she is dead tired. i mean work AL night and School all day.
How old is she? Maybe she needs some magic purple pills. lol. Ya know, the ones that increase libido.