Im male and 17 and i have a really close female friend. We have know each other for a few years now but over the last few months we have become even closer.I really like her and would love to become more then just friend. We always hugging each other and holding hands but she also hints at us just being friends and me getting a g/f (and her a b/f).Am i just confusing friends and more then friends??I have asked her out before but that was a couple of years ago! cheers
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Really REALLY good friend
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go after her , she hints it
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I have known one of my female friends for 4 years we got together at christmas and we broke up a week and a half later, 4 days ago i got back together with her again we were alot more intamet this time, never properly touched each yet other (I had her boobies though ) but it just shows if your mature enough you can break up and still be friends, aslong as it's not cheating on each other or something.
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It'd be hard to develop a relationship with another girl if you are already attached to her. Try saying something like. "We could make our friendship go further if you were my girlfriend."
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If your already good friends the relation ship can last much longer since the last time me and my g/f went out she's matured loads which was what made me do it.
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This might be a stupid idea but why not just ask her straight out how she'd feel about you two getting together now. If she isn't interested, then just remain friends and find another girl for a girlfriend.This is the tough thing about guys and girls being friends...
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You both know each other well, so you're both in the best position to see if it'll go further, BUT, and its a big but; if she doesn't think the same as you it could affect your friendship, being friendly with someone and falling for someone are two different things, they may back off not wanting to encourage you, and "poof", the friendship you have completley evaporates....I haven't experienced this, but I know people who have....but, if you're confident after all this............... I believe strongly everyone should have a close friend of both sexes, it covers your bases about questions like this - women are better to speak about some things, men better at other things
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what Northern Star says is just what i mean. If i try and take it a step further shes gonna think hang on a sec, his getting the wrong idea and there goes our close friendship thats the thing thats stopping me from just goin ahead and asking her. saying that, my best mate (male) went to ask her out as they are pretty close too and she wasnt interested and there still pretty close.