Is it wrong?

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Hey, is it wrong to just not want to have a girlfriend? I had a girlfriend for a few weeks but i told her that we need to just go our seperate ways and go on with our lifes because i realised i really dont want a Gf right now at this point in my life because theres alot to do and alot to explore because im only 15 years old and im not even to sure what im going to do with my life yet and highschool is only 3 short years away from being over. Everyone is like insulting me for not wanting to have a girlfriend.. i try to tell them you dont NEED one to be happy but they just wont believe me... its not like absolutely required for a highschool teenager to always pursuit getting a girl? i just want more time for myself and all thats it

Well, this is one of my fast advices:It is not wrong. It's your gut feeling that matters. If you feel your free time is more important than your girl, then you may have done the right thing. Girls come and go, but time doesn't wait for anyone, and in the end, it is time that kills you.And you're 15! Spend your time doing something more productive. You got another, what?, 5 years before you'll be faced with the real world. This is not the time for mating, it's the time to do what you can do while you're young. Most people do sports, hang out with friends, etc, just do something you like and live life!phew, I thought it's gonna be a short answer, oh well...-Taison! out

Hey man... Its okay.. I felt the same way at 15. 2 years later, I still dont want one. I had one for awhile, but I told her I dont need this in my life right now. I want to figure myself out and my life before I worry about that. Dont get a gf until YOU are ready. No one else matters.

reading your post made me smile, good for you hon.........more people should do what your doing.

Yeah. It's not like you have to rush into a relationship or something just cause your friends say you should or that you should have a girlfriend. Just do things at your natural pace and get a girlfriend when you're ready.

Thanks for the replies everyone and angelwitch why do you say that? everyone in my town seems to be against me... some people even called me gay because i dont want a girlfriend. They think just because a guy isnt pursuiting girls that it is weird... i sitll socialize with girls i just dont want a gf right now

I don't encourage violence, but violence is an asset of the human nature. People call me psycho. Well, I don't care, I feel that two people who exchanges blows with their fist are communicating in a way, telling each other what they feel. People call me psycho. So what? It is what you feel that is the most important thing.Don't bother with the people who call you gay, they just don't realise that they are the ones wasting their time.-Taison! outps. . The violence thing I was talking about was Boxing, not some street fight. I don't just go up punching someone out of the blue. I'm a sportsman, not a brute!

Yeah, like Taison!, said, they are probably calling you gay because they have nothing else to do, and they don't have anything good to say to you. They are making fun of you, I guess, to try and embarrass you enough to get a girlfriend. They see that your way of thinking is different and they lash out at you. Just ignore their comments because they don't know what they are talking about. Try and explain your reasoning behind this and see if you can get them to come around.