Im 17, go to college and havent had a g/f. I have got loads of female friends im always getting comments from the guys about how many ladys i know but if i do fancy one of these female friends i neva seem able to take it that step further!anyone else have this problem? i think i worry to much about becoming there friend first before askin them out so then they don't want to ruin the friendship, it's doing my head in! any advice?? thanks!
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Lots of girls but no g/f
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Yes there are plenty of men with the exact same problem. I would think that if girls just seem to like being around you, then you shouldn't have too much trouble getting one. You just need to pick one and go for it, simple as that. Get to know them, but honestly it's better not to befriend them really. I mean be friends, but not good friends before dating. The better friends you are the harder it is to get with that girl. Women have two ladders when it comes to dating and love. One ladder is the friendship ladder, which you can never get off once your on. Then there is the Dating ladder, which you can be moved to the friends ladder from. As opposed to men who only have one ladder, I'll let you name it. Anyway stay on the date ladder until for your entire relationship. Being at the bottom of the love ladder gives you about a 60% better chance than being at the top of the friends ladder. It's a complicated system I know, but unfortunatley it is true. Getting on their love ladder is just different for each girl. Everyone has little tips and "Sure Ways" to getting there, but truthfully there is none. I am sure you are reading this like what the hell is he talking about,but it is correct for the most part. For any questions contact me at [email address removed] Good Luck and Good Times Friend.
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very well said there. I guess if you mess up with one there's always another. and 17 at college? Way to go, not sure how it works in the UK, but here in US people are 18-19 when at college. Definitely date before being good friends.
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c and f?
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Yes this approach does work on getting girls to like you. Its funny to me how women want a guy that is a complete asshole to them, but say they want a "nice guy" that will treat them right. Like I said "Women are WEIRD!" Good Luck and Good Times Friend
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unforghetto is right, do that and they will like you... Cause if not they will have no attraction to you, they would most likely just walk all over you and get bored
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yeh, i understand the whole ladder system Forever Alone! good way of putting it, i see what you mean. thanks for your help just to let you no anondude, compulsory education finishes at 16, you can go to college between 16-18 (college is a bit like school but with more freedom and treated more like an adult still stay at home though) the from 18 you can go to university which is what you call college, you leave home, get your own place lots of debt for tuition fees and stuff! lol, a bit off subject but i just thought ill clear that up!