i have just a couple questions regarding sex...my girlfriend and i have been dating for 9 months, and she says shes ready for sex. not that i'm scared, but really just wondering about some stuff. i've heard that usually girls wont orgasm the first few times, and also stuff about how rubbing certain areas helps, how does this work? any information will be greatly apreciated. also, i'm dont know any techniques with giving female oral. i know the whole deal, but i dont know anything different from moving your tongue around and stuff. is this all it takes? and would girls enjoy that more than sex? also, what would be the best position to first try?
A Couple Questions
Honestly I don't have much experience with having sex period with girls, found out I was gay at a young age.BUT talking to a few close female friends of mine, they have said that position wise while having intercourse for the first time they agree that missionary style, atleast at the beginning, is the most comfortable. Incase you don't know missionary style is when shes laying on her back and you're on top of her. Just remember communication while having sex is important, if something doesn't feel good let her know and let her know the communication goes both ways and if something doesn't feel good for her to let you know. and its certainly okay to ask "you okay" or "Does this feel good". To me thats intimacy and just as much of a turn on. Even now with my lover I'll even ask during sex, I always want to make sure i am pleasing my partner.
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if its the first time for the girl, its probably good to have her on top. That way she can control how deep your penis goes into her. Missionary can be painful for some girls because guys force too much in at a time. Only problem with the girl on top thing is that she might only take in a few inches of you before she stops so you might not be totally satisfied from it. Communication is the key.
Go with the flow. Communicate. The key to beginning a sex life, or actually anytime...When the girl says 'Ow', or 'Stop'...STOP right then. She's hurting.
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