It bears mentioning before I begin that I have never been able to enjoy ice cream by licking it.I enjoy going down on a girl, for the most part. The wetness doesn't bother me, the effort doesn't bother me, my jaw doesn't bother me. However, my tongue does bother me. It seems like I can only do it for a brief time before my tongue really starts to cause me pain.At first I just thought, "Well, this is why guys don't all like to do this. It hurts like unholy hell." And so I would grin and bear it for as long as I could. But eventually I decided that this could not possibly be the same for most other guys. So the next time, I paid close attention to what was going on and why it hurt.I discovered that it was really not my tongue that was hurting. It was the small membrane of tissue under my tongue, holding it to the floor of my mouth. This membrane was being strained too far and grating against my teeth during the process of licking. After some research I learned quite a bit... it's known as the "frenulum" (well, really, all membranes are known as frenula, but you know what I mean), it prevents you from swallowing your tongue, and some babies have it clipped to prevent "tongue-tying," wherein they can't breastfeed properly.So. That was that. So all I had to do was not strain that sucker and things would be fine.Alas, such is not really possible. Unless I just hold my tongue still (which still hurts somewhat, just holding it out extended beyond my mouth a small amount) and move my head, I have found that you pretty much have to actually lick to really be anything like good at administering oral sex to a woman.My questions are these: is it possible to stretch your frenulum over time so that this will not be a problem for me? Or should I see about having it clipped back some? How serious a procedure would that be? I would appreciate your input.
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Tongue and Frenulum and Oral Sex.
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While it's a good suggestion, it doesn't really work very well. With something thrusting out of your mouth (a tongue) instead of into it (a penis) it becomes too difficult to both use the tongue on the girl and also use your tongue to keep your lip in place.
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You use your facial muscles to keep your lip in place. But it seems they'd get fatigued as well.
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Regardless of how the lip is kept down, it doesn't work very well. Thank you for the suggestion, though.
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**what about getting a dog and using 'it's tongue????? ** :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:
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OOhhh good suggestion Angel.. my BF (yeah not a girl but umm... same position works for us boys hehe)and I use that position and it works good!
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Think outside of the box, it's not your tongue's position that needs changing but yours. The kama sutra has many positions for cunnilingus which dont put half as much strain on your tongue as others. If all else fails put a couple of pillows (or your arms) underneath her ass in order to lift her up a bit.
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> Think outside of the box
Nice double entendre. And the Kama Sutra is a great resource.
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my fraenum is always danaged by my lower teeth after spending a bit of time doing my duty.
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I also plan on at least two days of a small canker sore on my frenulum after a good session of cunnilingus. I'm actually in the process of having a small silicon mouth guard made for just covering the center lower 6 teeth. Cost me about $250 for the mould and creation. I'm expecting it soon :)
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@CunnyGod Welcome to Afraidoask, and thanks for the mouth guard solution. Let us know how it works out.
