Hello, I've just been normal hand masterbating for 2 years.Wanting to try Anal Masterbation, well, I've already sorta tried it, I lubed my 'finger' and tried to put it in my bum, but when I do, it hurts, and can hardly get it in. Moral of the question.I've been reading on here, and it seems like you guys are doin' this pretty easily, and why won't it go smooth?
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Anal Masterbation, normal?
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Don't force anything into there. Slow and easy is the way to go.Honestly, it does nothing for me. I hear that massaging the prostate is what leads to more intense orgasms but I can never do it right. Would rather have a woman do it with her tongue or finger.
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I had thought it was possible. My bad.
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I dont think its normal but I admit iv'e stuck object in there
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> The prostate is located about 2 inches inside the anus. If anyone is willing to stick their tongue that far inside, they deserve much respect.
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LOL - that was funny!! :grin: Very true though.
As to the original posters question: You need to relax as much as possible. It is import for your anal sphincter muscle to be in a relaxed state before you penetrate it with anything, otherwise it might hurt. Also, make sure you lube both your anus and your finger - both need to be lubricated. Use lots of lube - more than you think you need. If you use lots of lube, relax, and go slow, your finger should slip right in without pain. -
Important: Always trim your fingernails before putting a finger inside!And yeah, take your time and relax. The first time I did it took me about 25 minutes to insert a finger all the way.
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First start off with a TRIMMED index finger. You may even want to put on a latex glove first to help make it even smoother. Use KY or the drug store brand of KY and lube the finger well. Place it VERY GENTLY near the anus and lightly circle the hole with the finger. DON'T INSERT YET. Just circle it for a few minutes. After a few minutes without insert, just put the finger over the anus and gently press a bit without entering. Just apply a bit of pressure. Do this over and over a few times and after a few minutes SLOWLY begin to insert JUST THE FINGER TIP in about a quarter of an inch then take it out. Do this a few times then go a LITTLE further in. Repeat this until you have you whole finger in. DO NOT FORCE IT, IF HE OR SHE OR YOU SAYS STOP, STOP! Within a week or so of trying this the person should be fairly used to the finger and inserting and pumping it in and out should become easy. Also try moving the finger around while inserted, back & forth,etc. Orgasms ARE VERY VERY INTENSE when you leave your finger or butt plug or dildo in. Soon you will want to try something slightly bigger than your finger. Try your middle finger or graduate to a SMALL butt plug. Same rules apply to the new toy as did with the finger. Start off using the finger as usual then after getting loose begin with the plug.Plugs have flared bottoms to prevent them from going all the way in. If you graduate to dildos later get ones with a flared base or ones that have the balls at the bottom. This prevents them from slipping all the way in. You don't need a trip to the ER to retrieve it, that would SUCK!After a while you will become very used to anal play and you won't need much time to prep for your session. You'll loosen up very quickly after you learn how to relax your anal muscles. It takes me less than 5 minutes to go from start to riding a 10 inch silicon dildo like a bucking bronco! GITTYUP LITTLE DOGGIE! The key to learning anal play/sex is to TAKE YOUR TIME.