Recently I was having casual sex with a friend of mine, and first he couldn't get it up without oral, and then after i got it up, when we changed positions, in the few seconds it got soft again, is something wrong with me or him?
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Is something wrong??
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he's probably just nervous.
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i don't think he was nervous, he is much more experienced than me
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Maybe he likes you too much.
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so it was him? It kinda hurt my feelings cuz i thought maybe it wasn't good to him
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Don't take it personally. Sometimes it's just one of those things.
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that sometimes happens to me when im with my girlfriend i really love her so my mind isnt really on the sex acts more of how much i enjoy being with her, maybe its the same case for him.
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Never have your feelings hurt by what happens with a guy's penis! Ladies think we have total control over what our penis does, like making it erect or soft is as simple as moving an arm. We don't! A lot of times our penis has a mind of its own it seems, and we have very little control over it. Erections can often be influenced by nervousness, and even what goes on in our subconscious minds. All that stuff can be difficult to control. So please ladies, never confuse an erection or lack of an erection with whether your guy likes you or not! I've heard ladies get mad when their boyfriend gets morning wood, and they think that its because he's having some sex dream with some other lady. It doesn't work that way (well, usually )
