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Making Love vs. Fucking

After four years of singlehood, I'm finally in Love with a wonderful woman. She says she likes me in bed, but i think she's lying. I never get her off, and i did everyone else. Also, she said something about me seeming to just fuck her and not make love to her. This actually hurt, cuz now i have a girl i want to treat with respect so i need to know how to make love to her, and HOW TO MAKE HER CUM, or i'm afraid she'll go somewhere else. Thanks for the help NED
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The needs of a woman vary. You will have to ask her what it is that she requires of you in order to be satisfied.
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As sdp said, you need to ask her. No one can tell you more about this woman than she can.
About the making love part, perhaps it would help if you didn't obsess about making her cum. Just express your love and communicate with her about what she needs. Good luck!
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Ah, making love. Sounds so great. It's all about being gentle, looking into her eyes, holding her hand, and just letting her know she's loved. Emotional satisfaction can be stronger than physical.Believe it or not, just making love to her like this can make her reach orgasm. Women are emotional creatures. I'm so fascinated by them.
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If the difference is that "making love" is gentle and "fucking" is rough, some women can only cum easier with rough sex. My g/f can cum very easily with rough sex. In fact, she can cum three or four time when we're at it. If we have house guests and we have to be quiet, she would cum only once.
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"making love" two enjoying each other's company in a sexual way. gental or rough. I have never made love. i wonder if i will ever be able too."fucking" is just that. fucking. it could be one enjoying the other with out the other enjoying it or one trying to give the other enjoyment when their not enjoying it. Fucking may feel good at the time but afterwards not. and regreat builds up. making love there will be no regreat, no i wish i hadn't done it, it would be fun.
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i like it rough
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i love the joke:
what is making love?
it what a woman does while a man is fucking her.
haha.funny.to me atleast.
yeah,kissing,looking in her eyes,paying attention to her whole body,caressing every lil bit of her.telling her how beautiful she is,how good she makes you feel.
all the sensual stuff accompanied by fucking:).
thats my take.
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"Making love" doesn't even have to be sexual in itself - as websex pointed out, it includes how you look at her, holding her hand . . . the sort of things that show that you care for her and you look to her happiness.I suspect you do that already, CR.
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In reply to: doesn't even have to be sexual in itself Ineligible. every thing has to do with stupid sex. the worlds obsessed with the crap. In reply to: it includes how you look at her, holding her hand . . . the sort of things that show that you care for her and you look to her happiness. gets back to sex...
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I look forward to having a relationship not based on sex. Making love means more than having sex because what's important isn't the sex part of the act.
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sooooooo is sex making love or is it fucking? yeah duh! i know what sex is but...grrrr I don't know how to word this.
if making love isn't sex then it's just love. i mean.. grrrr i don't know. i can't word what is going on in my head. grrrrrr :angry: NeVeRmInD.i'm a SpaZzzz :scream_cat:
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In reply to: You'll understand when you are a little older i'm so sick of hearign that. i'm not a fucking kid. there is not fucking love in this stupid worlsd anyway! so i guess i want ever understand even when i am 20....... if i make it that long
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haha CR125.you're not having an easytime about this are you.yeah,you'll work it out.i dont really carebout the difference.just hope when i get a girlfriend she doesnt want to fuck.i really like the love part.and i thinks its really untactful of a girl to tell a guy he fucks her.that is not cool.there are better ways to get the message across.show the guy what you want.tell him what you want.hint to him,do to him what you want done to you.but to say you're fucking me!not making love to me.that would hurt my ego.especially if i thought i was making love to her.i just think it could be communicated constructively.
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i'm not laughing and i'm not confused i understand a hell of alot more that u think i do kristal
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The whole concept of making love is complicated. Different people define it in different ways.First, IMO, there is a difference between sex, fucking, and making love. Fucking is when you don't care about someone, like a one night stand. Sex is more of a boyfriend girlfriend I care about you deal, but you can also have sex when the two love each other while the goal is just to have fun. Making love is when the two people love each other and the actions that take place are for satisfaction of emotions where the two bond and give one to another.Again, this is just my take on the deal.
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My take on this .... fucking is just rough, uninhibited sex where only your sexual needs are satisfied. Making love is sex where it may not be as rough, but not only are your sexual needs met but also your emotional needs.Two people who love each other can do both. Two people in a 1-night stand can only fuck as there are no emotional needs such as love, committment, etc. My g/f and I do both. Sometimes we fuck very rough, slapping her ass, talking dirty and just plain banging her. Other times we make love, barely breaking a sweat; but after we are both satisfied.
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Making Love, sexual activities (often including sexual intercourse) between two people. Sex, Sexual intercourse. Fucking, To have sexual intercourse with. To take advantage of, betray, or cheat; victimize. Used in the imperative as a signal of angry dismissal. To act wastefully or foolishly. Used to express extreme displeasure.Phrasal Verbs:fuck offUsed in the imperative as a signal of angry dismissal. To spend time idly. To masturbate. fuck overTo treat unfairly; take advantage of.fuck upTo make a mistake; bungle something. To act carelessly, foolishly, or incorrectly. To cause to be intoxicated.from dictionary .com.....lol (teah i'm bored )
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It's so reassuring that there are guys out there that really do understand the difference between the two (making love and sex). Makes me feel bad knowing I might not ever get to experience either of the two. It is nice to know not all guys are insensitive jerks that are obsessed with sex. turns and stares at someone You don't know who you are.
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you'll make love one day.
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