Dear, to whom ever may be reading I'm a 17 year old male turning 18 in 2 days and I've got a problem, I hope I can get something other than critical remarks and criticism. I have a bad habbit I wish I can break but it seems impossible to try. I can't figure out a good way of putting this but when I consitraiting I tend to want to play with or touch my manhood and its not like, I like to I use to when I was young but now Its an addiction I can't stop. I only do it when I'm by myself because I dont feel and curtain comfort when i'm next to someone or if someone else is in the same room, only when I'm comfortable. I'm afraid if I find someone I can be comfortable with, I'm gonna start playing with my cock without noticing, that'll be alittle akward. Its that bad, out of no where I find myself playing with it and it could have been five minutes later from when I started, even when I writing this post I'm touching, feeling it around but not jerking it of anykind just light touching. I only do it in my room if I'm anywhere else in the house I don't. I was wondering if anyone else has had this problem and knows how to break it or any ideas how to. If you don't I still like to know your advise.
I have a bad habbit I cant break
Hey bud, habits are very tough to break sometimes. I can see where this one would bother you and appreciate your wanting to discuss it with us and see if there is some suggestion or feedback. For me habits are usually best broken by changing things immediately. If I'm alone and something starts....I get up and move to where there are people. If I'm struggling with something (lets say porn) then I will physically leave and go do something else, take a jog, do some exercise, go for a ride, make a phone call...do ANYTHING else to stop the behavior. Hopefully in time the incidence of this will lessen and you won't worry about it as much. Lets face it though, even when we're not masturbating there's some pleasure in touching that equipment! Don't be to hard on yourself and think of things you can do when you start that will change your environment, then maybe you'll do this less and less. Good luck and feel free to keep chatting about it..others may have some suggestions too.