I now have a new gf who im serious about
My concern is the time factor
she hasnt had sex in a year (since her ex bf)
6 mths after she had sex with ex she got a blood test done for hiv and hep etc and was all clean
Then 6 mths after that which is now, shes with me
She assures me and even said she can get the doc to give her a copy of the certificate if i wanted but i said to her that its ok
Im putting my trust in her and want to keep her
She is being serious with me and has nothing to hide
Am i being paranoid here or does it seem good enough?
I think that should be enough to reduce the risk to something acceptable. You can never get the risk to zero, and trying too hard stops you having a life at all (and, possibly, a girlfriend at all).