Closet heterosexual

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Serious question. I have been gay my entire life 34 years. In the past year or so I have lost the sexual attraction to men and find myself watching straight porn, jacking off to women, etc. Ive been in a relationship with a male for 10 years and we no longer have sex. I'm afraid to tell my friends about this because they may think I'm sick. Are there any other guys in my situation? Is there such a thing as a closet heterosexual? I know my parents would freak out if they knew I was a closet hetro. Please be serious, I know this is an odd situation.

I know my parents would freak out if they knew I was a closet hetro. That made me laugh!!!I suppose if someone "turns" gay after a period in life, I don't see why the opposite couldn't apply.

Somebody call the Vatican!! I think this might be one of John Paul's miracles!!!!

I agree with sdp, in that if thats how you feel now, then follow that and be heterosexual.

It's OK to be heterosexual. Are you more afraid of what will happen to your long-term relationship, or are you more concerned about what your friends will think of you? As far as your boyfriend is concerned, it looks like the sexual part of the relationship is over. And you can't put on a charade for your friends, unless you want to live in a perpetual I Love Lucy episode.You and your boyfriend need to decide whether it's time to move on.

Hey there! Being a gay male myself I can totally understand where you are coming from! I myself like to watch straight porn, there's something erotic about it (hell my fav type of porn is bi-sexual porn lol). I often struggled with wondering if I turned straight for liking to watch straight porn, esp when my ex of 5 years and I we're having our falling out. I even flew to Colorado after my ex and I broke up to visit a female friend I THOUGH I was interested in sexually. But when it came down to making out and intamacy with this girl, I couldn't get erect to save my life.. it just didn't feel natural to me, nor did I find anything sexually arrousing.It seems a lot of times when a relationship is starting to fail, a lot of other emotions start to rise.. as it did in my case. I am certainly not trying to discourage you from trying to figure out if you "turned" straight, actually I would strongly encourage it. Hopefully my experience helps out a little. I hope the best for you!!

dont be ashamed by your heterosexual feelings, its a genetic thing. i know being a hetero sexual male in this world is very contraversial, so i know it must be hard. so im all for ya. i believe in civil unions between heterosexuals but not heterosexual marrage.also do you also find yourself watching more football than musicals?

Umm I think you meant to add homosexual a few places???

go try some pussy man its good