I think this is the right place to post, alright me and my girl friend are going great, been going out for a little more then a month, and usalyl with my gfs i kind of get tired of them after seeing them so much, but with her the more i see her the more i wanna be with her, like if i dont see her for two days i get sad/mad and idk its really werid, never had it happen to me before and i think its because i think i truly love her but it gets me so depressed when she isnt here. Like the other night she had a ride to my house and back like at midnight then stay till like 5 in the morning which we have done before, she has even walked to my house 3 times and its about 3 miles in the middle of the night. But she wouldnt becasuse she was to tired and instead got drunk with her girl friend, and she told me the world doesnt revovle around us and that made me so depressed/mad i didnt know what to do. Could you guys help me here?
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The more im with her
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You're in love, James. But in any relationship one person is usually "clingier" than the other, which can lead to problems. Recognise her right to feel different from you, and that it doesn't mean she doesn't love you or care about you.
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yap, u r in love... and it's natural to feel that way... i have been going out with my fiance for the last 2 years... and when we r not together we would feel depressed... it's just that we had so much fun together that no one else in the world can understand... however, we know we can't be with each other all the time, it's impossible~~ so we got to learn how to be understanding and give each other some private time... we have different friends too... so he needs time to spend with his friends and i needs time to speed with my friends... i guess try loosen up a little and let ur gf know why u r feeling such way and how much she meant to u... and let her have some private time with her friends too...
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Dont be to clingy, you'll drive her away. She has to have her own life. and yea, your inlove,
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hmmpf women... ;/
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what does that mean???
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Sounds like love to me.
The bad news is: **There's no cure.**
The good news is: **There's no cure.** -
You can't live with them, and you can't live with them. I mean without them.
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isn't that just wonderful............................
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It doesn't mean anything specifically Smooches, I was just reminiscing my past experiences. :\
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Yah i think now i am started to get over that, havent seen her in about 4 days and im doing good, the only time i get like that is when she tells me she is coming over and it turns out she cant, thats when i get all depressed because i expect to see her and be with her but i end up not.
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Most guys can't live without us so I really don't know what you're talking about. Your mother is a woman, so is your sister and so on and so forth. Oh and when you said that I thought you were referring to all women, thanks for making that clear.
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It was a joke, referring to the fact that men have so much trouble understanding women (the Venus and Mars thing, which is think is quite overdone).
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u should let her know..."baby, don't left me haning...."let her know how she made u feel and ask her to be there when she said she would and consider whatever she plans before she is going to tell u.... to prevent same thing to happen again....