What to do

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heynot posted here on a while so not really known here anymore, but anyway. Been talking loads to my x, still have so many feelings for him and think i still love him. we met on this site, and it was an internet thing, we saw eachother a few times, him coming up to see me mainly. well, i went to uni which was a lil closer to him but not by much and it made the whole thing easier as my parents didnt agree. but then he broke it off, said the distance wqas too far and he couldnt cope. well, now he's bin texting me telling me how shitty he feels coz his gf just finished with him for another girl. now i know i need to be there for him, i have been, texting him making sure he's ok, calling him up and him calling me at all hours. you see, he suffers from depression and thats why he was on this site, he helped me through loads. i cant help feeling like i want him back and its bringing me down. well, ive got a bf which makes things ten times worse coz i shoodnt have these feelings for my x when im with a guy im falling for in a big way. just wanna know what to say to him, im finding it hard to give him advice like i usually would as he's my x and we have a history, i fee like im being biased. so, what would you lot say to him if you were in my position?? how would you help him??? just some advice on what i should tell him will do. it hurts not being able to say anything to help him when he means so much to me.Becky xxx

Sorry, my comment isn't really helpful, but did you say that his gf left him for another girl?

heyim kinda in the same boat myself only its my x girl but anyway encourage him to just hang in there and keep looking and do the same things u girls like us to do just listen and be there u may not be his gf anymore but that dont mean u cant be there for him when times get hard right but if you feel like you feel like things between the two of you could still work then u just have to find out who you feel for the most and wheather the two of you could make the sacrafices that it would take to make it work some tough decisions there...do you think you could read my post and give me some advice from a girls point of view? pls..goodluck

yeah, kinda funny in a horrible sorta way. it wouldnt work out between us, i just cant help thinking about it all, especially as he keeps texting me. nice to know he sees me as a good enough friend that he wants to talk to me