How long before it starts feeling good?
i'm a virgin and i've never really let guys finger me because i couldn't stand the pain until just recently.
so.. yesterday was the third time i fucked around again..
it still hurts like a bitch..
and i know FOR SURE it's not because i'm not wet enough..
what else could it be?
does it just take time?
could it be that the guys "fingering" you are really just scratching your vagina and thats why it hurts? Try telling them to rub your clit instead of trying to stuff their fingers as deep into you as possible. Most girls dont "feel good" just by having things put into them. Tell them to rub your clit gently at first and only go faster when you tell them to, that way you can control the pressure that its being play with. If they rub your clit too hard at first it will most likely be too intense and probably painful. Make sure they stop if it feels that way because you arent going to enjoy it.
yea im in exactly the same situation!!!! and no hes not scratching me so idk what it is....but actually lately its been feeling better now but it doesnt feel like im gonna orgasm....idk
maybe its better that you girls try playing with yourselves on your own first to give yourself an orgasm. Then show your boyfriends the same technique you used so they can give you one. I'll tell you right now, most guys are clueless on how to pleasure a woman.
Today my boyfriend fingered me for the first time, and it hurt really bad for me too!! I don't think it's anything he's doing wrong, he's had lots of experience, but I'm a virgin. I 'hope' it stops hurting!
just because he has a lot of experience doesnt mean he's doing it right either.
Have you tried doing it yourself? How can you tell him what to do if you don't know what to do?
hm.. well i've had an orgasm before by myself.. by rubbing my clit..i know how great that is.. but i want to experience the other kind oforgasm..
Sorry for hijacking your thread. I was replying to DuMont.
ohh it's chill.
:frowning: i didn't get any ass tonight and im sad. lol.
who likes to toke up and fuck around?!
yeaaaaaaaahhh! it's the best.
okay goodnight.
i like love this thread.
everyone is so smart and nice. :grin:
omg yea! i play with myself but ive only been able to have an orgasm by the clit and i wanna experience one through fingering or sex without the clit
