Quick Question

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I just want to know something really quick and then I'll leave you alone. If you have a wife/husband, or a fiance do you think it's right to flirt with other people? Like for example you were going to get married or you already are and you talk sexually or flirtaciously (is that a word?) with someone else is that respectful or trustworthy with your partner?

I see no problem with innocent flirting, but I do think talking 'dirty' with someone is a big no no! Flirting is a natural thing and most people don't even realise they are doing it, but you can cross the line while flirting with someone. Innocent flirtation is okay as long as you know when to stop..... at least thats what I think

Yeah I agree. There is a line, and if it gets to intense to talking dirty and such, that is going too far.

my gf's friends and her sisters friends talk dirty and flirt with me all the time. They never hold back when talking sexually and stuff. My gf doesnt mind.

I don't view flirting as a problem. I don't view "talking dirty" ( I don't see sex as dirty and so don't really like the idea of saying talkig dirty) as bad either. if it is all to stimulate sexual arousal, it is the responsibility of those involved to direct this arousal appropriately.

and by that you mean grabbing my gf and making her sit on my lap as i get an erection from talking dirty to with all her friends?

In reply to:or a fiance do you think it's right to flirt with other people? Like for example you were going to get married - you talk sexually or flirtaciously (is that a word?) with someone else is that respectful or trustworthy with your partner? wow this post sounds aimed right at me.............flirting is just that, flirting, and some people flirt, some don't, in my case, my other half knows exactly what i say and do online, so there is no loss of trust, and there is a line that isn't crossed.

So sex is never dirty?

sex is never dirty as long as both parties think the same, are not made to do anything they don't want to.............why would sex by dirty?

Well, I was wondering if it would be dirty when you're having it with someone else when you are already taken or doing it just for the fun of viewers aka porn videos. This is just my curious side peeking through. I'm still new to this.

well for me doing it with someone else when your already taken, is not so much dirty, and wrong, as i dont' beleive in cheating, if you want to cheat then the relationship you're in isn't right, and you shouldn't be in it...........as for doing it for fun on cams and video etc, if the other part of the partnership didn't mind, and knows whats going on then i don't feel that would be dirty either, but all this is just my personal opinion

Flirting can boost your ego and make you feel good about yourself, giving you that assurance that "you still got it". I see nothing wrong with flirting if you are in a relationship. Just don't do it in front of your significant other unless you both have talked about it. Flirting may help the old ego but it will spark jealousy as well from him/her.