I love it when people assume, that when I say spanking, I mean taking the kid out the back, stripping them of pants and wailing on them. Of course it's wrong to beat your children for no particular reason, I agree with that. If you do it, cause your drunk/mad/no reason at all, that's not appropriate. But like No1sexpot said, if your child is talking back to you, cursing, yelling at you non stop, You have an obligation to put that child in their place.
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Violence begets violence
(Lets see how many other dead threads we can bring up, hmm...)
Not true, you can't generalize like that. I am a serious believer that violence doesn't always solve things. But you also can not lump spanking a child when they've obviously done wrong, into the category of violence. If you've ever watched a daytime television show, not Springer or any other that scripted shit, when the child is out of control, the parents say, "I've tried everything, grounding, talking, yelling, and nothing seems to work..." there is always that parent in the audience who stands up and says, " You need to spank your child's ass!" and what do you hear from the surrounding audience? CHEERS! Maybe if more parents spanked, NOT BEAT their child when THEY HAVE DONE WRONG, my american generation, and the ones that follow would not have been so disrespectful. (white lines is a prime example, I'm betting his parents never punished him, Oh, and soviet guy).
dictionary definition of violence:
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Physical force exerted for the purpose of violating, damaging, or abusing: crimes of violence.
The act or an instance of violent action or behavior.
Intensity or severity, as in natural phenomena; untamed force: the violence of a tornado.
Abusive or unjust exercise of power.
Abuse or injury to meaning, content, or intent: do violence to a text.
Vehemence of feeling or expression; fervor.
Nothing in there about justly exerting punishment on your child when they have obviously done something wrong, not like color outside the lines, or drop milk on the floor, but cursing out the parent, or person of authority--when it's uncalled for.