So my dad heard us...

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If they're getting on your case about various things, then it's because they do have concern. If they do have concern, then they obviously do give a shit about you, and they're not as uncaring as you seem to portray. They'd let you do whatever you wanted and potentially (in their minds at least) hurt yourself in the process if they didn't care about you at all.It's hard for me to give advice, I'm not a parent. Something I do know is that I respect my parents, and I care about them. Sure, they can be annoying at times, or sometimes it seems like it's all the time when things aren't going right and you feel they come down on you for the wrong reasons. What you can't do is lose respect for them though, as they have their reasons for doing what they do. Try to understand them better, and then you can try to make them understand you.

Ok. I don't really have anything else to say because you have a wall that's keeping the common sense from going to your brain. All I know is what comes around goes around, or you reep what you sow. So when you are married (maybe to your gf) don't be surprised when your son has no respect for you and thinks he's more mature than so he spreads how dumb you are on the internet. Just saying

burrrrrnn......

Well they're paying your bills and putting a roof over your head, so you do need to respect them. You're acting like you know everything, and at your young age you don't. You're lucky they let your girlfriend sleep over.

Why don't you sleep at your GF's house and have oral sex with her there? I wonder if her parents would care?

its funny how i didnt do anything other kids arent doing but when i ask for advice i get insulted and shit. pretty fucked up cause none of you know me. ill respect who i fucking want. i wanna enjoy my life not sit and be afraid of the law and of the man. i dont care who thinks parents are the overall rule of kids. no way am i letting my childhood go by the way they want. its my life im gonna do what i can while i can. i didnt ask for a life lesson i asked for advice, a real question. most of the shit on here is 12 year old kids asking what hole to put their dicks in and you can be nice and tell them what to do but just because i dont respect my elders you get on my case. i dont believe in letting other people control my life sorry my beliefs and views are different i will look for help elsewhere.

> And he says, are you going to try to tell me you didnt have sex with her? Im totally shocked and very pissed. Because i honestly didnt.

Bill Clinton and teenagers for some reason think that only the insertion of a penis into a vagina is sex. You had sex, of the oral variety.

> My dads the type of guy who can never be wrong so he goes yeah whatever. So now im pissed that he thinks we are having sex

I thought you don't give a crap what your father thinks? Do you care what he thinks or don't you?

> and i dont know what to tell my girlfriend.

What's the issue? That your afraid that she thinks that your father thinks that that you and she had intercourse? Does your girlfriend have some kind of respect complex for your father?

> I dont want her to be embarrassed. What can i do?

You and your noisy girlfriend were overheard having sex in you (and your parents') house. So you were busted. So deal with it. Are you looking for an anti-embarassment drug? Are they threatening to withold your allowance? I thought you don't care WTF your parents think, but your girfriend seems to. I'm confused.

Whether you come here or go somewhere else, you need to frame your question better.

ok so i have to ask, if you're the man of the house, blah blah blah and you don't respect your parents, why the hell do you care what your dad thinks?

because i dont want anymore arguing in the house.

OK. I respect my parents, i love them, and Jesus Christ is the loving God who rules all. I stand down in fear of all authority i am going to grow up to work for the wonderful USA untill the day i die.

There, do i fit your standards for advice now are do you still have problems with my personal life.

I sympathise with your feelings, JoeXpolloi. However, it's your parents' house, and ultimately that gives them the say about how you use it.Lots of guys and girls have made use of the great outdoors for that very reason.

I don't think just giving birth warrants respect. He didn't ask to be placed in this piss of a world.
Sorry...its 6 AM and I didn't sleep tonight...oh how wonderful insomnia is.

because i dont want anymore arguing in the house. Are you asking, "How do I get my parents to STFU and let me do what I want?" Either you have to reason with them, or you have to brainwash them, or you have to just deal with not having overnight guests of the opposite gender in your bed (pretty standard for most American families) and do your business elsewhere, outside of your parents' house.What you described sounds like pretty standard (or kind of lax) parantal behavior. Unless you can figure out how to brainwash them, I'm not sure what you can do. I don't know the details of your home life or your relationship with your parents, but from what you've posted, you sound like a standard issue spoiled child who can't get his way.

Lord, I've run out of things to say. Ok let me just think for a sec....
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Oh ok got it. You may act more mature. You may be "smarter" than them. They may be all up in your business. But they loved and cared for you enough to bring you into this world and keep you alive. If you were about to die I bet your mom would come and see you. If your dad wanted to he would take his life for yours. Just the fact that your father is concerned about you and he doesn't want you getting aids or anything doesn't mean you shouldn't respect him. Parents can be annoying. I know. But they care enough to look at for you or you would be in the street begging for food. Your dad knows way more than you. He has experienced things you haven't (maybe. I'm just guessing.) You don't have to be all happy dandy for your parents. But you should respect them. My dad gets on my nerves all the time. He doesn't want me wearing certain clothes or hanging out with certain people. He's so overprotective. But I know it's because he's looking out for me. My mom would always tell me it's not that he doesn't trust me it's he doesn't trust those around me. And you can't blame them for that. This world is sick and dangerous. But he gave you a precious gift. He gave you life; where you can explore new things, have adventures, meet your girlfriend, and all that. So be thankful for that.

Gosh I sound like a priest. I'm done for the day. Where's my banana?

smooches I can give you more than a banana

Throughout my childhood I've heard and been told alot of things that have stuck with and affected me in some way. Too this day one quote has stuck with me impaticularly is... "If you can't respect/love your own parents then chances are you can't respect/love anyone". As many here know, teenagers or children of all ages, have no comprehension of anything, yet seem to thing they're smarter than everyone else and, in most cases, are as stubborn and hard to get along with as a woman going through menopause(Of course I could be wrong;)). And whether or not you may be able to comprehend this, your parents deserve some form of respect for what they do for you, regardless of how little it may be. Keep in mind your parents are still people and if they didn't care, AT ALL, your father wouldn't have said anything about you having sex to start with, correct?In closing... Remember that you're only 15 years old, and remember that you're not as smart as you may think you are. Everyone here was/is a kid him or herself and knows what it's all about. It's all a learning experience and only you can make you the person that you'll evertually turn out to be("You're the master of your own destiny").Mike

I can take the last posts into consideration because i can see what you mean about what they do for me, and they do provide for me. So if i do my part and pull my weight around here and try to see where they are coming from i think ill be able to understand why they get jumpy over this stuff.

I can almost guarentee u that most parents don't want to hear their kids goin at it.. they dont want their children sexually active! There are so many risks when you get into that stuff.. when my mom found out i wasnt a virgin she flew off the handle! Not because i wasnt a virgin but because she was worried about all the risks.. there are many careless teenagers these days. I think you're dad is just worried because you're kinda young to be getting involved with such.... adult(?) things

In reply to: Im like oh fuck im soaked in vaginal secretions. Can I just say that I loved that part of the story! You went straight from short, mispelled, punctuation-less dribble... to vaginal secretions. I just thought that was fucking hilarious!

YOu are 15 years old. Don't you think it is disrespectful for you to be having sex in the house with your Dad walking around. It sure as hell wouldn't have happened in my house. The Dad that you are dissing is the one that you will go to when your bimbo girl friend gets knocked up.