I lost my virginity to my boyfriend in March of this year, and since then, we've only had sex 1 other time. When we did do it, he seemed to enjoy it, ALOT. But, I didn't. How many times does it take for sex to start to feel good?
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When does it start to feel good?
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dont double post, you made this exact same post a week ago.
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umm actually, i just registered like 10 minutes ago
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forgive me, your post looked really similar to this one:http://www.afraidtoask.com/forums/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=UBB4&Number=203550&Forum=All_Forums&Words=feel good&Match=Entire Phrase&Searchpage=0&Limit=25&Old=allposts&Main=203406&Search=true#Post203550
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ok... put the link really doesnt answer my question. I want to know about sex, not fingering.
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what made you not enjoy it? did it hurt?
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When I first started ahaving sex, it didn't start to feel good for a long time. (Maybe 10 to 20 times) I think this was down to the fact that I had never had sex, never even been naked in front of a guy before, and although I love my body and am confident with it, its still a very nerve-wracking thing. Trying to relax is the best option. Don't think 'This should be amazing, sex is meant to be great' cos that won't help. When you're having sex, try and concentrate, while relaxing, on little things, like how close you are, listen to your partners breathing, feel their skin against yours, feel their muscles tensing, the noises of the bed sheets, all the little things that will make sex more sensual. Also, you shoul make sure your partner spends a long time making you feel good before he even thinks about sex. You should be spending as much time as YOU want, not he wants, on your personal pleasure and making your feel really good. This doesn't even involve fingering or oral sex, but can just be kissing, stroking, running his fingers in your hair, little things that you like and taht make you feel like a goddess before you even think about having sex. Then hopefully, sex will be more fulfilling and enjoyable for you.Hope this helpedPlease mail me if you want to ask any more questionselainecox
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Everybody is different. Make sure you can completely relaxed and comfortable with your self, also have a fair amount of foreplay. Just to get you guys all ready for it. Then go at it slowly. Dont go fast and rough as that can make is unpleasent.I hope this helps.
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First most guys get great pleasure out of just being involved sexually with a girl. We are going to get excited with the smallest thing. I remember the first time that I held a girls hand in the theatre I actually ejaculated in my pants. Next, sex is like driving a car. You must learn to drive before you can relax and feel confident. The newness of a sexual relationship is exciting but also tense. It takes time to be comfortable. Take your time!