Hey guys! When can you say that a girl is your g/f? How does she become your girlfriend? Could you consider her to be your g/f if you dated a few times, kissed and felt the connection or do you have to ask her if she wants to be your g/f? I am asking becasue one girl that I dated told me she could not be my girlfriend while I thought that she already was. It was weird because we went out and kissed several times. She had some legitimate reasons to say that but now I am still wondering how it works. Are you supposed to ask a girl or do you just both assume?
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Becoming a g/f and a b/f...
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Hehe that's so cute. There really is no set 'date quota' before you can call each other boy/girlfriend. And I guess you've already realized it's bad to assume that you are before a 'talk'. I, personally, believe in having a talk to make sure we're on the same page. I dated a guy once who thought we were boyfriends after just a couple dates. That was embarrassing.
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Hey! How far did you go on those few dates though? Was there any action?
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Oh, we had sex on the second date, I think. That doesn't mean anything though. Sex does not equate 'relationship'. My current boyfriend and I dated for a good five months before I twisted him arm into some kind of commitment.
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Holy shit ! So... haveing sex is not enough for considering her your g/f? lol... I guess it depends on the girl... So, when would you ask her and how???