Tried to have sex, cant fit it in

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Me and my gf tried to have sex, first time for both of us. Problem is I cant get my dick in her. Her vagina is real tiny. Its the third pussy i've ever been involved with and this one is by far the smallest. I find it difficult to get even a second finger inside her, let alone my cock. How can I squeeze my dick inside her?I am not sure if her Hymen is broken or not I have fingered her quite a bit.One thing that doenst help is my cock often looses a lil bit of its hardness when I put a condom on which I dont think helps to push in there.

Most likely she's nervous. When women are nervous, and especially during their first time, their muscles tighten up and nothing is going to get through.

She's not relaxed enough. Try more foreplay and bes ure that she's well lubricated either naturally or with something like Ty before you attemp insertion. If a baby is eventually going to come out there, you sure should ought to be able to get your cock in.Good for you for using a condom. Maybe you're using one that's too small (tight).

Firstly this is not impossible to sort out. She has to be totally relaxed, and that could take time, best to choose somewhere where you won't be disturbed, where you will be comfortable that will help to make her less nervous. Plenty of foreplay so she is wet, and take it slowly, maybe you could cum first, then carry on with the foreplay before trying to penetrate her, that way you can stay hard for longer in case there is some problem and it will give you both time. Also, try sitting on a chair, and have her lower herself onto you, that way she is in total control and that could also help with any nerves she might have, and of course plenty of lubrication, for the first time don't leave it up to her own juices, overload with the lube, use the chair position, and make sure your not disturbed and i would guess that you will both be able to do it.............hope it all goes well hon

This is interesting.We always get this intimate in places we're comfortable in, mine or her room.It hadnt occured to me that she might not be the relaxed one. Its more me who has had the relaxing problem before and one time when we tried a while ago I was so nevrous I couldnt get it up. I dont have that problem now though I think it still effects my hardness sometimes. I suppose I would need a totally hard cock to get it in right?Certainly no problem with her wet as she tends to be juicing as soon as I got my shirt off and she juices alot though I will certainly go buy myself some lube.As for coming before hand she is the only girl I have been with that I cant give an orgasm using my hands which I find a tad frustrating but I know everyones different.

Yeah, I'd have to agree that she may need more time and foreplay and stuff to get ready for it. I agree, though, that sometimes when you first put a condom on yuo can loose a little of the rock-hard thing. I've switched to Magnums, which are a little wider and don't feel like they're pinching the base. Maybe your condoms are too small?

Don't give up with just the hands, get in there with the tongue, young man...I always follow the rule:You've gotta lick it, before you stick it.

Oh I do lick. What made you think otherwise? I do use my hands the as af of yet I havnt managed to give a girl an orgasm with my tongue yet.Well I have only licked out twice, the first time it made me wanna gag, the taste that is, it was overpowering. How do you learn to put up with it?

get her beforehand buzzed

She was really really wet before I got to her pussy just from making out.

Anyway I tried mastabating with a condom and I think I have a better feel for it now and I dont think it will be a turn off anymore, especially now I have just bought some easy-fit ones that are alot more comfortable.

Sounds like she might have hygiene issues if the taste/smell is that bad.

A clean pussy has a very distinct, but by no means bad, smell/ taste.

If it's something you just can't handle, try getting her to take a shower and really scrub up on that area, probably won't be nearly as bad.

I'm not sure how I could say that nicely

Offer to shower with her, it's a nice pleasant time together, and the effect of the warm water and naked wet bodies together is quite nice.

I agree with others comments. She is really nervous and afraid it's going to hurt and is not relaxed. You are apprehensive as well about not being to penetrate. I would suggest that you try a little wine and allow her to get on top of you. Don't rush into anything. Take it slow and easy and lots of foreplay and lubrication.