hon, XXPSPXX is soviet guy back from the.......mental institution, on a day pass or somat...........just ignore him and he might go away............or unfortunatly, maybe not sigh
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Bisexual/Curious!!!
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I had already figured it out. He's so desperate in his attempts to have people notice him, it's pathetic. He's always going "You're gay, loser!", "I'm angry!", and "I'm better than you!", and other stuff like that. Must not have that much self-worth to be that desperate for attention :P
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sorry honey didn't mean to come across as patronising................I totally agree hon with the attention thing tho hon..........
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I'm having almost the exact same thing happening to me. I don't find males attractive yet I can materbate quicker and get aroused only by thinking of gay acts. On females They are incredibly attractive but I can't get aroused by them and masterbation takes a long time just thinking about them.
I can not however see myself EVER having a gay relation because in my thoughts I never have me in the thoughts, just 2 guys. Even though this is me right now I know it will change in some way, hopefully my arousal of women will come back.
BTW: like MANY people have said, sexuality is fluid and is different for everyone.
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Maybe you’re a closet voyeur…. Maybe watching people having sex is what is getting you off and the only reason you see two guys in your thoughts right now is because you can relate to what pleasures them… What do you think?
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No idea, but I do know that I would do anything to have sex with a girl, I would do anything NOT to have sex with a guy. With girls I see myself having sex with them. With guys It's the exact opposite. I have no idea, but maybe someone else does
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The key is exploration!Be honest with yourself about what turns you on privately. I remember how turn on I was while watching straight porn. Something about a guy doing a chick. I dunno. What I remember more is the first gay porn I saw. I don't know what happened. All I know is that my erections were longer, harder and thicker. I remember the first bj I had from a guy. He actually made love to my cock. He was so good he turned my nutsac inside out when I came. I had been hunting around for women to screw. This was a great solution and I didn't have to buy him dinner........hehehe!
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Roc I think I agree with you. Some people really get into Voyeurism (hell I cannot say it's not hot lol). Some people really get turned on to something thats they don't see on a normal basis.Though depending on your age Lekter, theres a lot you'll have to learn about your body. Up til the age of 17 I called myself straight because I found females attractive, though at night I always masterbated to gay thoughts or gay porn I found on the internet. Just be honest and open minded to yourself, and you'll be A-okay Though
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Did you come out of it gay?
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yeah it ended up I was/am gay (I'm 25 now btw). I was just very scared about admitting to myself I was gay because of the social unacceptance and unsure how my family would re-act (was raised in a christian home). But my family has been very accepting. There is still the social unacceptance, but this is who I am and it something I will just have to deal with. I have supporting friends and a supportive family, what more could I ask for
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What's going on with me is almost the same as what happened to you. Does that might mean I might be gay also? Or is it random, just like everything else?
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BTW, I'm 13. And also, I am getting an interest into one type of gay act and I can maserate on it for about 1-2 days and all or almost all arousment goes away. I feel like I am just exploring all areas of sexuality. However, the thought of turning out gay still haunts me every second of my life. I am already have been told that I have Anxiety, Severe Depression, PTSD and the thought of ending up gay makes me scared to death.Please, anyone here who is gay please do not take this the wrong way. This has nothing to do with religion because I have lost my faith after what has happened in my life. I just have a few more questions.1. How do I know when my sexual development is over?2. Do people who go through sexual confusment end up more often gay or straight?3. Does losing interest in one sex(females for example) mean you will end up gay?4. Since the beging of my sexual confusion I have never felt any arousment from anal stimulation, is this a sign that I might not be gay?Thanks for all the help everyone
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Hi Lekter, I don't know the answer to most of your questions, except probably 4 - 4 has to do with your body, and I don't think it has anything to do with sexuality. You can be straight and turned on by anal stimulation, or gay and not, as well as the opposites.I don't know what the trauma was that you experienced, but I wonder if the stress, and the anxiety, and all the things you are having to deal with, means that this is not a good time to think about labelling yourself anyway.
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I agree. At that age I knew I liked guys but I surely wasn't too worried about a label.
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It can just be difficult sometimes though. Because what goes through my mind is, "What if I end up gay, if I do this it might mean I'm gay." ect ect
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Sweetie, nothing can truly make you gay. Deep down, you are who you are. Doing something that's homosexual is a whole lot different from actually being homosexual.I could see and squeeze as many boobies as I like and it won't make me straight.You're far too young to get so worked up. Don't stress yourself out.
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There are Christian organizations running training (brainwashing) camps where gay men "learn" to be straight. Oddly, it doesn't involve orgies with women. There was a poster here who was an ungayifying counselor--and he wasn't even 20. F22Fighter, are you still around?
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I've heard of these, SteveA. I've never heard of them truly working, since most of the guys just suppress their feelings, get married and then cheat on their wives with the brother-in-law.
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Have you seen the movie "But im a cheerleader" Its hillarious.
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You are correct. But their point is, even if they can't change your nature (and they think they can), the important thing is that you don't engage in "sinful" behavior, even if you feel a lustful hunger toward other men. Like, thinking is bad enough, but touching is right out.