"But im a cheerleader"I vaguely remember it...on cable. Natasha Lyonne was in it....MMMmmmmmm....Natasha Lyonne.
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Bisexual/Curious!!!
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Its a camp where they try to turn lesbesians and gay people straight
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Haha yes! Have the DVD."Excuse me! The last thing I need right now is some fruit who's just proved himself straight tellin' my ass how sexy I am!"
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isnt it great? its one of the funniest movies
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Qith you only being 13, I would never tell you you are gay. A lot of guys experiment when they are younger and end up straight, as well as some that turn out gay. You are still very young and going through a lot of emotions. Puperty can be a pain that way Best advice I can give you is be true to yourself. No one knows your body or your emotions better than yourself.
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- How do I know when my sexual development is over? Sometimes I wonder if sexual development is ever over lol. Seriously though, for me everything just because very clear. It was just something I knew. I dunno how else to explain it.2. Do people who go through sexual confusment end up more often gay or straight? Honestly, I'd have to say straight.3. Does losing interest in one sex(females for example) mean you will end up gay? Nope just means you are confused, which is okay! It takes time to figure some things out.4. Since the beging of my sexual confusion I have never felt any arousment from anal stimulation, is this a sign that I might not be gay? Could be, but not all gay men like anal stimulation. Personally I am not a HUGE fan of it (thought honestly sometimes it feels good), but I do it to please my partner.
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Funny this came up, I was watching a documentary about this on BBC2 just a couple of hours ago. Personally I think it's a ludicrous idea and I think it's appalling that some people are forced into situations where because of their family/friends/social environment etc. they can't simply be themselves and end up paying a fortune to some bigot who promises to make them 'normal'.They briefly explored some 'success' cases on the show, many of which were later shown to be a sham and I can't help but feel that anybody who claims to be 'cured' is either a seriously confused straight person who's finally worked out their orientation or a gay person who's decided to lie to themselves.Homosexuality is not a disease. It doesn't need to be cured. Particularly not by some bigoted individual who won't even accept the possibility that a 'Flying Spaghetti Monster' created the universe. Check out FSMism here
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Hi Lekter,I have been reading everything you and everyone else has been posting about your problem. I too, cannot answer these questions you are asking. These are things that you will have to answer yourself. Although, you might not be able to answer them right now, you will as time goes on and you mature a little more and continue with your growing process. Guys are very sexual. They are horn dogs! Most guys think about sex or something sex related about every two seconds 24 hours a day. So thinking about guys sexually when you are going thru puberty is normal. You have nothing to worry about. Sometimes, for the most part, this is just a phase that guys go thru. They may even try jacking off, or have oral sex with some of their friends. This doesn’t mean you’re gay!!! It just means you experimented sexually with someone else. If you are gay, you will determine this only by realizing that girls do not sexually satisfy you and you get more enjoyment from having sex with men. Sometimes guys don’t realize this until they are well into their 20’s or 30’s. Each person is different. Whether you are straight or gay, you are the one truly needs to accept it. You can’t change who you are inside. Nothing can change it. You can try to hide it or deny yourself the satisfaction of being who you are and accepting who you are. Ultimately you will be the one who suffers. Most people these days are generally accepting of alternate lifestyles as long as you don’t throw that lifestyle it in their face or try to make them accept it or like it. Gay people’s rights have come a very long way since I was your age. I would not wish anyone to be gay as it is a very lonely and hard lifestyle to live. Think about never being able to show your affection towards your partner in public. Never being able to touch them or be able to give them a kiss in public... It’s sad and heartbreaking that this happens. They have fewer rights than most straight people, but are still required to pay taxes and live day to day just like the “Straight” people do…. Sorry I’m off the trail. I get very passionate about human right being violated. We all live on this earth and we should be able to live in harmony.Back to your topic. You’re just a normal young adult. I don’t think you have anything to worry about. You’re only thirteen and have sooooo much growing ahead of you. I’ll bet in the next 3-4 years you’ll look back at yourself and won’t even recognize who you were. Trust me. What you’re thinking about is perfectly normal but try not to get all caught up in the little things and just let life do its thing. Allow yourself to flourish into the person you are meant to become. Just sit back and enjoy the things you will experience and learn. Although it is a difficult and trying time for most teens, it will al be over soon enough and you won’t have to worry about it anymore. Except maybe when your son hits that age and you can share what you learned when you went thru it. Just relax and learn what you can about you and your body and don’t worry about what anyone else thinks. You have to come first!