Hi everyone, Well me and my girlfriend are sexually active, and she had her normal period around the end of each month for the last 7 months, then this month we had sex 2 times with spermicidal condoms each time, and she is 4 days late for her period, we tested on the 2nd day late and the test came up negative, and she hasnt been showing any signs of getting her period or being pregnant... we are very scared and need help, thanks.Vinny
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Very scared plz help
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You're probably fine, worrying about pregnancy can sometimes make periods late, its a viscous circle. As for the test, i would test again in a few days, just to make sure, but i would expect you both to be fine. Hope everything works out ok for both of you.
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Thank you so much for replying, its just ive never met anyone like her and if something did happen, it would be the end of us, ill keep testing and post our results.Thanks, Vinny
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you're welcome honey, and yeah please let us/me know how everything goes. By the way how old are you and your girl, and why would it be the end if something happened???
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I am 17 years old and she is 17 also. The thing is, i have very understanding and open parents, when it comes to just about everything, they would understand this problem and work through it until it was over with both of us. My parents love her. Her mom on the other hand hates me and everything i do, no matter how hard i try, she will never like me and if she knew anything about this thing with her period thats going on, she would never let my girlfriend and i be together ever...she is one of those moms.
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Everything is so great now, she called me THIS MORNING and told me she had her period. Im so happy it came and nothing bad happened. I dont know why i was worried at all! I dont think ill be having much sex with her anymore though...kinda worries me. Thanks for everything!Vinny
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Vinny i am sooo glad she got her period, and you can both relax, don't worry about mother-in-laws hon, no man is EVER good enough for their daughters, or sons even, in my case, just be yourself, don't try too hard and don't sweat it, if you two are meant to be together, she will get it eventually.............big hugs to you both
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Hey Vinny,Good to hear your out of the woods on this one! If I could give you a little it of advice though - a woman's cycle doesn't work like a clock and being late doesn't necessarily mean pregnancy, and I have been on the end of the "i'm late...." call a few too many times!! There are are a number of things that can cause her to be late and stress is a big one. Try to keep cool. Another thing - most pregnancy tests are pretty inaccurate up til about 10 days, so taking a test two days after she was due is unlikely to show up positive - it is just too early at this time. Annd if you are using condoms, they're about 99% effective, so pregnancy again is more unlikely. Try and get over the stress if you can - sex should be something that you both enjoy, not something you have to do just cos she's your girlfriend. Worrying about pregnancy is very important, try and find a balance between caution and concern.