k well my wife is 7 months preg. in 2 more months we'll have a lil one runnin around... anyway my question is this... its for wemon who have already had babies and for those men who been in my situation... ok here goes... does being preg. make u do things u normaly wouldnt do? see im askin this question because my wife lied to me.. shes never lied.. ive put her to the test before n she wouldnt do it... anyway does it? n also im in iraq right now... it seams everytime i call shes someone else... like shes got like 3 personalities each with there own demands, wants, needs and modes.... that from being preg. too... i mean i only knew her like 3 months then i deployed.. i just wana know if shes crazy or if its somethin every woman goes threw.
My wife n her modes
OIF I - OIF III
Cant wait to get out back home to my lovely wife and my new baby girl... Cadence L. H. Daddy loves you...
**Being pregnant, especially your first is a very scary thing. You feel like crying one minute and killing someone the next, then you wanna hug everyone, and then cry again cos you felt guilty for being horrid in the first place!!!! I cried at adverts when i was pregnant LOL you also go through a lot of worry, made worse i guess as you are not with her, you worry about the baby's health, the birth, the future, whether your partner will still love you afterwards, just about everything and anything. I know its hard for you, but try and have a little patience with her, constantly reassure her that you love her, that things will go just fine etc etc........the verbal equivelent of a big hug, cos she will need one. Congrates by the way :smile: **
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The hormones can make you very moody. I would not blame the lies on her pregnancy though. That is a character flaw and since you didnt know her very well before you got deployed she may just very well be a liar. I am sorry. I hope you can work this through and have no more lies between you. Trust is very important in a relationship.