I just don't seem to get this whole "dating" thing. I've dated guys before yes but I manage to always fuck it up. And my friends (who might I add are very very pretty!) go around parading their looks and wonder why I don't do the same. Here's the thing...I don't think I am THAT good looking to the point where I need to flaut myself off like that. I am very modest about the way I look but I don't like to show off for the guys! If they don't like the way I look, fuck em! I don't care! Then my friends always seem to get boyfriends and date a lot and deep down I can't help but feel jealous and a little bit lonely. I love my friends to death but it really pisses me off when they go around checking out guys and talk about this guy said I'm hot and this guy said this about me and it just sucks. And my parents are worried because I don't date and the thing about that is, I would if I could actually meet a great guy WORTH dating because every relationship I have been in, I just get stomped on and it getts tiring after a while. -sigh- I feel a lot better now, I have vented a little but if anyone has any suggestions...I really am in need of help! As I'm sure you could probably already tell!
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I just don't seem to get it...
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**Well sweetie, to be honest I'm in the same boat as you. I have a really great friend who flaunts herself and is able to chat it up with any guy whereas I'm very modest and I believe that if a guy doesn't like me for the way I dress or for who I am on the inside then they are not worth my time. And I do find myself getting jealous of her from time to time, and I do feel lonely myself. As soon as I can figure it out and what to do about it, I'll be the first to let you know. Good luck my friend. **
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Do you want the type of guys that your friends get? It seems like guys who respond to girls who flaunt their bodies don't want serious relationships. Maybe I personally should not be giving you advice on dating. I have my own issues, but if you exude confidence, the right guys will respond to that.
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To Katie Lou: Thanks! WE could definatley help each other out on that one! And if I find anything, I'll let you know too!! To Silligirl84: That's very true, and I can't believe I didn't hink of that lol...I'll try it.
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I went to a phsycic today JUST to do it and she said that dating will be disasterous for me for the next year and I will be terribly hurt and I was so surprised. She guessed so much about me like that I have been hurt in the recent past. It was amazing and so much fun!! ~.^
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they are good at judging body language and almost everyone has had a bad relationship and will in the future, so its not as mysticle as it seems
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She could have told the same thing to practically any woman your age, and they'd have the same reaction. It's pretty cool how they backtrack when they make an incorrect guess. Their techniques are not hard to learn, and are easy to pull of, since most of the people they talk to are in a non-critical mindset.Psychics are truly full of crap. If they were for real, they'd make a trillion dollars in the stock market.
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Well it was weird because she guessed his name and everything, but it's not like i believe in any of that stuff anyway I just wanted to see what it was like...one of those things that I just wanted to do before I die lol -crosses palm reading off list-