well i am 13 and live in australia i have known i was bi for quite a while but just only told my brother who is gay and his bf and also my cousin who is a lesbian.but anyway school is just pissing me off so much that i don't barely go cos nearly all of them are like homophobes and i find it quite hard to get along with them and it makes me feel uncomfortable just being there with them so i have to stay homophobic ppl can go screw them selves
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People that don't accept welll just homophobes
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In reply to: homophobic ppl can go screw them selves THAT is the funniest thing I've read in ages!nice!
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I understand how you feel, but when you're done with whatever pre-university school is called in Australia, it will get much better. When people are young teenagers, they are often insecure and confused about sexuality, so the deal with it in a way that makes it seem less threatening to them. Just hang in there.
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School is important, the1yahate. If you miss school all the time it will be difficult to get a good job later. Can you change classes? Change schools? Can your brother give some advice how he handled it?
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Same thing happened to me. I live in Australia, and I came out in year 10. Worst fucking thing I ever did. Even though I was happy with my gf at the time, it was so painful to walk through those gates everyday. I noticed some teachers even were homophobes and treated me differently. Well I left school this year (I was doing year 12) and it was the best decision of my life.I suggest that you DO NOT come out while you are in high school, as you will get shit all the time. Plus you are only 13, so take your time okay Yes the majoirty of those people are homophobes, just try and be civil. They made me feel uncomfortable as well. But it's life I guess.
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now are u saying they're afraid of you? or they disapprove of what u do, so they ignore you?
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Just keep going to school. It's gonna suck for another year or two, but it'll be worth it. 2 years ago, everyone was always saying anti-gay things, but now their actually fascinated with you if you're gay. So just keep going to school, ignore the haters, and things will get better a lot faster than you think.
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I agree with you Imbob. Also ignore them.. I know fows simple to say but seriously it works. If you show that it doesn't bother you they'll let it alone because it's not getting under your skin.
