im 15 years old and i really think i am small for my age. im 4.5 inches erect and i don't know my girth. my gf told to me she wants to have sex and im she told me she is not a virgin. but the problem is im a virgin and i dont know wut to do. i want to have sex with her really bad!!! but what if she makes fun of my size and she might tell everyone. i dont know what to do. i really like her and i want to f**k her so bad!!! and she tells me she really likes me to. i already kiss her and french kiss her to. wut should i do???
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Please need help!
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are you sure you wanna fuck her? YOu said you are a virgin and you dont know what to do so do you even know what you are saying when you say "i wanna fuck her"? If you are not sure how to have sex why even think about it? It makes me wonder if half the kids even know what they are doing when they "have sex".
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How can any virgin know where to start? This would be the end of the human race.
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haha exactly, I'm just trying to make a point that he's probably not ready for something like this.
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but can you please tell me if i am small for my age. if i am then is there something wrong with me? will it fit inside the girl. will she still get pleasure? and can someone give me advise on putting it in. and after that do u just go in and out?
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dude, why would you want to sleep with a girl, and lose it to someone who sounds like she might not care about you? If you have any reservations about doing it, whatsoever, then the answer is obviously no. It's not a good idea to go through with it. Going from kissing to french kissing to straight out sex, is not a good pattern to follow, IMO. Right now you're feeling urges from your cock, listen to your brain man.
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your size is ok for your age and for most girls, just "sticking it in her" wont give her pleasure no matter how big you are. Heck you can give a girl pleasure without having to use your penis at all (how do you think lesbians do it?) Just learn how to play with her clit, use your mouth, use your hands. They are far better tools than your penis and can do a lot more than your penis could do even if you had a 10inch penis.While playing with her ask her if you are doing it right, how she likes it, where she likes, how much harder or faster she likes it, etc. Communication is important. If she still doesnt like you just because she thinks your penis is small then she obviously isnt for you.
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you might want her to be on top for the first time if shes more experianced. oh, and use protection.
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yes! please please use protection. if you dunno how to use protection, then dont have sex!
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As abc123 said, your size is fine for your age and you might well grow some more over the next few years (very likely). But even if you don't and you stay at your current size, you need to learn that penis size is no guarantee of good/bad sex.
For the majority of women, intercourse is NOT the most important part of sex and many women can be brought to orgasm simply through clitoral stimulation without the penis ever coming anywhere near them. The best lovers are the people who take the time to learn what their partners want from sex and make every effort to give it to them.
With regards to this girl, only the two of you can make the decision as to whether or not you're ready but if you do decide to have sex, please follow the advice given by people on here and use protection.