I believe that what goes on between two consenting adults, while in their right minds, is their business.However. I have to questions the self esteem of anyone that would subject themselves to that level of public humiliation. It's degrading and demoralizing. It fuels the addtictive cycle. If you felt anything for this person, you would help her instead of enabling her. I understand about the attention seeking thing, being an exibitionist but public displays like that are simply inappropriate. The other concern I have is "how much is too much". Where does it stop? For yourself and for her, seek some expert advice. I know you are finding the responses on this thread highly amusing. Everyone knows you are doing it for the entertainment value. Each of us, as human beings has a responsibility to help those who are less fortunate.Speak to someone soon!