The Most Sadistic

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That's tough to explain. When you're dealing with a masochist, there's a lot of love and trust that goes with the pain. I know it probably doesn't make sense to you, but trust me, there's a mutual enjoyment in it. Plus, I would never do anything to her that I wouldn't allow done to me.

your so gullable its funny

... um, I suggest that you get some help from a doctor, psychiatrist, or your parents. You should treat your gf a little better. Because she might end up getting killed by you.

Y'know, looking around this forum is it really that hard to believe somebody out there in this big wide world does these things? It's neither here nor there to me, truth is truth.

Only the trolls.

Okay, point taken. I will talk to Jess about it. If I told my mother about this she'd probably shit herself, and my father's dead. I will consult a doctor, or maybe a sexual therepist. I'm...not a fan of psychiatry, cuz they'll probably lock my ass up.

Well, I guess everybody's entitled to an opinion. It's not my place to convince people of something they don't want to believe. That's the funny thing about truth and fiction, it varies from person-to-person what is and is not.

Assuming this is honest, there are definite points of concern:

1. No safety words. That's like working on a roof without a safety harness: it seems quite safe enough until there's an accident, and then it's a disaster that cannot be fixed.

2. You get in trouble with the law. Exhibitionism, by its nature, is very risky. At some stage you won't run fast enough.

3. You feel addicted, perhaps not in control.

smooches, my friend, you are totally negating the woman's will in this situation. If this is what she want's, it's cruel to deny her.Hers's an abbrevited old joke....A sadist meets a masochist in a barthey go home togetherthe S excuses himself to get readythe M undresses and lies on the bed in anticipationthe S walks into the room, dressed in leather and holding a bullwhip.the breathless M asks "are you going to beat me?!?!"the S calmly relpies "no"

ah yes. But if he treats his gf this way and she likes it there may be a slight possibly she's sick too. If he gets used to treating his gf this way and god-forbid they broke or what not, what if he gets the urge to do this to the next girl that comes his way? Or treat other females that he may come in contact with the same way?

why does he have to be sick, why cant you be the sick one? sick is relative.

Smooches, the "what if" game never works.

The problem with SM, as far as I see is it plays too close to the "line". Much like how drug addicts rarely start with things like heroin, but with lighter things. After a little bit, one might say "It's only a small step up, sure I'll try that". Next thing they know they've lost control with a series of small steps. With SM one might start with small things; a little bondage here, a little whipping there. Eventually one might take some small steps to more extreme things. Bloodletting for example. After a while it takes less and less to lose control. Outside of the act a person could convince themselve, and others, that they are in control; but in time it gets to a point where something potentially deadly may occur from something that, at the time, was only a small step further. asphyxiation masturbation is an example of something that has killed people in the past. Now I'm not necessarily saying that this case fits the example, but society learns from experience and thats why there are things like safety word. Why most people are automatically repulsed by certain things. Not written in stone, but something to keep in the back of ones mind, when you're "losing" control for just "a little" bit for that one small, extra, rush.

That's the last time I ask another question out of curiosity on this board.

hey Smooches, thet wasn't meant as a personal attack or anything. The "what if game" just refers to non-linear extrapolations.
The idea that s&m could lead to violence against non participants does not nescessarily follow. That's all I meant.

Please, be curious and ask questions!

In reply to: A sadist meets a masochist in a bar(...) Darn it! I was going to add that joke to the board once I'd finished reading all the posts

In reply to: Darn it! I was going to add that joke to the board once I'd finished reading all the posts sorry, I guess I BEAT you to it

Ok no more crappy jokes from you two.

rubs hands togetherallright, someone's gonna get a spankin!!

pushes ^_^ out of the way No it's me!