ok my question is.....when does the orgasm happen??? hear me out before u answer...first time masterbating effectively orgasmed without knowing it and cummed...nowwhen i masterbate all i get coming out is pre cum its just clear and sticky i can pre cum about 5-6 times ina one session..it feels really good when its coming out and i kind of cant move for a few seconds. but this is nothing compared to my first actual orgasm... i even try'd to abstain for like a week and when i masterbated it was just the same...so wat is going on??
You know, it's really really helpful when people include their age when starting threads like these (since very few fill out their profiles). Makes it easier to offer advice.
Pre-cum just seeps out without any special feeling, so I'd say that these 5-6 times, where it feels really good and you can't move for a few seconds, are real orgasms with ejaculation - it's just that your cum is clear, which it often is when you're starting out. As you get older it will become cloudy whitish.
Not all orgasms are equally intense, and sometimes the first one is the best ever (because your brain gets a bit more used to them).