Okay, I’ve been chatting with this guy for a while (Walken knows who I’m talking about because I’m always asking his advise lol) and well, I’m getting the impression that my friend is trying to move in and try and get this guy away from me. I guess I should tell you guys the whole story. This guy and I have been talking to one another for about a year (nothing major, just idle chatting every once in a while because he was a regular customer at the place I work at) and a few weeks ago he called me at the store and asked for my number. I was thrilled because I’ve had a crush on this guy for a long time, and my friend was thrilled for me as well (I think). Well about two weeks ago he was kicked out of the place he was living at and he had no place to stay and since my friend’s mu was out of town and I was staying over for the weekend she invited him over as well along with her boyfriend. We had a great time that Friday evening, I got to sleep beside him in on the couch (nothing happened sexually) and Saturday afternoon I had to go to work and so did her boyfriend which ment him and my friend were left alone together all day. At first she had told me she never really liked him as in personality wise (a few days prior to spending the day with him) and ever since spending the day with him shes begun to tell me I’m to good for him and that I need to look for someone else. She even gave him her number. I called him the other day and he promised he'd call me the next day and instead of calling me, he called her. What should I do? Should I give up and move on or try and find out whats going on? I guess I'm jealous but to me that doesn't sound right and she has a boyfriend so why would she tell me that stuff?
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What's the deal?
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maybe you can talk to her boyfriend about the situation? Honestly though, I think its a good idea to find out where his heart is at before you give it away to him. If he wants to be with her then let it be. Someone like that would probably end up hurting you later on anyways. Damn guys really suck, I'm starting to hear a lot of these type of stories lately from my girl friends.
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Well lastnight I talked to that guy for nearly two hours on the phone and I've come to the conclusion that him and I will probably remain just friends (well that's the impression I got lastnight but you never know). Granted I really like him, but if nothing happens, meh, nothing happens and I'll still have a pretty good buddie to hang out with occasionaly. sigh I guess that I'll just have to wait a little longer than I hoped... oh well...
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Back off and illustrate to him that you don't care. Some guys like to know that they have options. It's good for their ego. Show interest in other guys and make sure both of them know it. If he sees that you are not that into him he will either change his strategy or stay with your friend...urgh!
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thats a great idea, i know it works against me =P
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**She has a boyfriend though... ugh, guys are so aggrivating! Why do I even bother? **
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maybe shes a ho...seriously though if she would go and do something like this to you, she isnt really a good friend...