if she's "busy" how do i kno if she really is or is putting me off?Q1: "Would you like to have dinner / see a movie / go to a Sox game / hang out in Harvard Square / etc. sometime?"A1: "Yes!" [You have your answer.]A2a: "Sorry, I'm busy this week." [Not looking good.]Q2: "OK, how about next week?"A2b1: We'll see. [You have your answer. It's "no".]A2b2: OK. [You have your answer. Then you negotiate a specific date.]> she has said that she would like/is willing to do spend some time together.That means nothing if you can't set a date to meet and do something. We're not talking about a night on the town. Going to the mall, seeing a movie, sitting in the park, grabbing a burger, etc. would all be a good start. If she won't, then you can't force the issue. A romantic relationship is not in the cards any time soon.But if you don't come out and ask, your chances are zero.
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How to get things going again?
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if you buy tickets are a sox game and she says no, ill go. Dammit that wont work... :lol:
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no baseball im not even from boston or anything but ill maybe ask her to go to the beach for a day or something..
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im not even from boston or anythingSorry...it was the Paul Pierce thing.
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NY baby but I hate the knicks so im a celtics fan
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bleh. gross. :angry:
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celtics. Yuck. Your team is a loooooooooooooooooser (no more caffine for me)
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Theres a good possibility Im gonna call it quits until she or if she rather makes an attempt to contact me. She prolly wont so whatever
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No dude dont do that!Make a move.I have done this once to a girl I really liked and now im regreting it.Just make the move.Youll be happy trust me!
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makes an attempt to contact meHave you yet asked her explicitly, "Would you like to go out Saturday?"? If you haven't, you have nothing to lose by doing so. If you have and she says no, then you haven't lost anything, and you won't keep thinking, "What if....". You'll have closure and will be able to move on.
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I asked her if she wanted to do anything she was busy so i said u set it up when u have time she basically got offended by that. Hopefully she'll see that she cant walk all over me and fall for my dont any shhhhhhhhh attitude. I think she needs to feel like im not always gonna be there and maybe ill try and make her jealous. i do think she likes me i just dont think shes ready to take that leap off of her comfort znoe and im not gonna waste my life waiting. she'll have 2 make the next contact or non will be made and thats that.Yes i did make some legit moves to answer your questions. Im not gonna throw her number away or anything but I have to much pride to keep trying if little to no progress is made each time. I think she'll come around if she hears other girls starting to become interested (which i think a few are) IS this a good plan or no?
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do NOT play immature childish games like that have some respect for yourself and her dont do a 12 year old thing that like make her jelous give me a break. Call it quits with her, she isnt interested.
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I disagree, she isnt very comfortable dating and is somewhat Immature, the most interest/response i got from her was when she found out i had been spending time with other girls (just friends). I think every case is different and maybe she needs a wakeup call.
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Yah dude i honestly say go for it, but dont take it to far because then she will just say fuck you or something. Are you going to tell her you like other girls or what?
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no not tell her I like them but make it clear that im spending time with them etc, so she knows.
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Or not?