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    I have a few. My all time favorites are Southpark and Seinfeld, but I also really enjoy Heroes.

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     Originally Posted By: Ineligible
    And me too - I'm a huge procrastinator. And the more I leave something the harder it is to get down to it.


    Agreed. I've got a heap of bio homework sitting here, untouched. I know that I need to get it done, but I'll more than likely leave it until the very end of the weekend/before class on Monday.

    Feeling unmotivated to do work has been a problem for me as well lately. I still have not figured out why I am unmotivated, but it's something I have been dealing with. Lately, I try to finish tasks as early as I can.

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    I for one wouldn't worry about it. It's just less work in the morning, unless you actually want a beard/mustache.

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    Since she has a boyfriend, I wouldn't try to get involved with her like that in the first place. Also, I'd be warry. If you do get into a relationship with her, look at how she has treated her past boyfriends, what makes you think that she would treat you any differently?

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    I'm 100% sure he doesn't / didn't like her. He told me to ask her out. He almost forced me, he was set for it. Also, he likes some other girl. Things are just weird lately, and I'm not enjoying it. I might be doing something with him alone this weekend, so I think I'll talk to him about it then.

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    Well, we shall start this from the beginning I suppose. Well, I was dating one of my best friends friends. I met her through him, you get the picture. Well, we recently broke up. Since then, my friend and I don't talk nearly as much. We go to seperate schools, but we've remained close over the past few years. We talk on msn a lot, and hang out a fair amount. In a way, I consider him my best friend, because I'm comfortable talking to him about anyways, and I really value that.

    So, since the breakup, we haven't talked nearly as much. Just the occasional "Hey, what's up" "Nothing, you?" Kind of conversation. We went out to an improv show last weekend. It's basically just a fun time, watching crazy things. We hardly talked... for 4 hours. It was weird. Then on msn, I ask him what's new. He says "Not much, school, and the little bit of awkwardness". Of course, he brought up the topic, so I ask him what awkwardness. Then he responds with "ummm" and I didn't get a response for a while. So I just left it, telling him if he didn't want to talk about it to just not bring it up.

    The thing that's bothering me is that I don't want him to be stuck in an awkward situation because of this breakup. I mean... sure, it's awkward. But we don't go to the same school, so he can hang out with her then, and he shouldn't feel bad for talking to me. Or at least it shouldn't affect our friendship. This whole situation is really bothering me, because I don't want this friendship ruined just because of this one failed relationship. I don't know what I should do. Should I bring this up and talk to him about it? Or should I just leave it, and assume that the problem will go away?

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    Well, this is an odd feeling. I was with my current girlfriend... or I guess ex-girlfriend for about 3 months. Things were going well until mid way through January when we began our exams. We go to different schools, hers being purely academic, high grades and whatnot to be accepted, so she was all out studying. I, on the other hand, go to a regular high school, and wasn't worried in the least about exams, but I gave her her space to study.

    After exams, we had almost a week off of school, I threw a party, and she came to that. Then I had also organized a waterpark trip with a bunch of friends, she said she was going to come, but she bailed. She apparently didn't want to come, and only told me she was coming out of guilt. No biggie, we could see eachother another time, right? Wrong. I'd call her up, ask her if she could go out to dinner, the movies, anything. Asked her if she wanted to do anything, that way she could decide, she was just never free. She does a lot of extra curricular activities, so she's always doing something, whether it's dance, grad council, schoolwork, performing arts. It's understandable that she was busy, but at one point we hadn't talked in a week. I was beginning to get frustrated with our relationship at this point.

    Which brings me to last night. Her school was throwing this dance, so I went to it so that we could finally hang out. I went with a feeling of insecurity, we hadn't talked in a week, things didn't seem to be getting any better, and didn't look like they would. At one point I was sitting in the basement with one of my friends talking when she came down. He abruptly got up and left, so I knew something was going on. We talked, mainly about how she doesn't have time for a relationship at this point in time, and how it was probably better for the both of us if we ended it now, and got all of the excess stress off of our backs. It all makes sense, I went to the dance even expecting us to break up. So I don't get why I feel so upset over everything. I only got 2 hours of sleep last night, and went to work for a 6 hour shift. This sucked because I was all alone, so I was left with my thoughts.

    I feel emotionless. I don't know how to express myself. Ever since my dad died almost 5 years ago, I've felt alone. I can't tell anyone how I feel about them, I can't cry, I can't express any real emotion. Perhaps I'm upset because with her, I felt like I could actually speak how I felt about things. I don't really know. It's just so confusing. I feel emotionless. After we broke up, a little bit later I made some joke about being single, and my friend asked me how I can make jokes already. That's when it hit me that I just don't have any emotion, I hide it all behind my jokes and immaturity at times.

    I don't know what to be more upset about. That I'm no longer with my girlfriend, one of the first people I've genuinely cared about in a long time, or the fact that I STILL have a major issue with my emotions since my father died. You'd think I'd be able to move on, but for some reason I can't. My eyes have only just opened to my problems, I just don't know how to deal with this anymore. I thought I was making progress in showing my emotions, but I guess not.

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    Well, it makes me much less worried about the whole situation, so thanks.

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    Hahaha, I know that she doesn't want me kissing other girls. I just don't know if she's wanting to teach me to get better, or what the deal is. I plan on talking to her about it tomorrow night when I see her...hopefully.

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    Well, I've been with my girlfriend for a while now. There's been some kissing here and there, but the other day, my girlfriend and I were sitting down, and she told me that she had to talk to me about something. I looked at her curiously, and she said "don't worry, I'm not breaking up with you." With that, I was even more confused. So I told her to go on, and she told me that I wasn't a very good kisser. I could see this one coming from a mile away, I mean, she is my first girlfriend, and my first kiss. I don't have any experience in the area, so I thought it might come up eventually. But, it still hurt. I don't really know what's going on now. We're still dating, but since then, it's been awkward. I don't know if we're going to just "practice" until I get good at it, she's going to break up with me, something else weird, my minds basically been wondering to the worst possible things. I think we're still fine, it's just an awkward stage.

    So, my question is, is there a proper way to kiss? Any tips? Anything to help me get better, haha. Anything's helpful, so I'd appreciate the help.

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