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    recently found out an ex b/f gave me the clap. i have been treated and don't want to get myself or the current b/f reinvected. (we've both been treated)
    here's my question - should i just clean my vibrator or buy a new one?

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    anyone used a cock ring? i'm sure someone on here has lol
    i never have before and even though the sex with the new b/f is awesome (i love viargra) i thought this might take it to mind numbing (we've been there once, both were incoherent for a while afterward) anyway
    i've been looking at some on adam and eve (there's a store here locally) but not sure which ones are better. price is a factor at the moment too. if he agrees - i'll foot the bill this weekend and my cash is tight right now.

    anyway - thanks for any tips

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    i have this with my boyfriend right now - he's got the widest girth of anyone i've ever been with. i said something to him about it so when we first start a sex session right before penatration he goes slowly, and doesn't go completely in the first thrust or two, helps stretch me out some before he gives me all of it.

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    your mom doesn't have to go in the room with you. for me there are usually enough ppl in there when i'm in the stirrups (nurse and a doc looking at my stuff)
    if you ask your doc not to say anything to your mom - then she shouldn't - most docs won't

    also if you can try to relax during the exam it will make it easier. if you tense up then yeah it might hurt a little bit. the first one is always weird. try to think of a 'happy place' and 'stay there' during the exam. i've been getting pap's for ten years and still go to my happy place during.

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    the topic was brought up (by him, i'm not sure how sensitive it would be so i leave that topic alone for now) again last night and from how he talked, i think he might be able to go the pill route. he's also talked about children so that makes me think that the ed would be able to be treated...(i dont have kids and want them one day, he knows that, i think he's trying to reassure me in a way that with him it would still happen) i'll check out those websites too, i've done some looking on the net but haven't really been able to answer my questions yet.

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    i dont know - we haven't talked about it that in depth yet - but he has made sure that i was aware before hand. i'm guessing so he could get a Rx before things get to that point.

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    i wasn't sure where to put this... but my new b/f just told me he has ED. there is a pretty big age difference between us and due to that my sex drive is higher than his. what i'm wondering is if anyone has exp. with this, and how it may have affected your relationship if it did at all. His ED is due to a back injury (i think) that he got in the military (he has two vertebrae breaks).
    Just looking for some feedback I guess, I have done some looking online, but its only about causes and the treatments for ED - haven't been able to find anything about how it might effect those...involved.

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    anyone tried them? i've looked at some for women - and just wondering how well they really work?

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    lubricated like niagra falls lol luckily(most of the time b/c too much can be a not good thing too) that isn't a problem i tend to have

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