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    Aduka

    Im just wondering how often do you cut your hair? For me.. id ask my mom cut it every 2 weeks or so. Im a fussy hair guy and i sometimes shave my own hair. My hair grows so fast lol. I dont know how the black people keep their hair so short for so long, is it because they shave it very often or is it just their hair doesnt grow as fast? Take NBA players for example.. they seem like their hair doesnt grow at all

    Anyways this could be a dumb question but just to be on the safe side.. does cutting your hair constantly anyhow prevent any kind of baldness? :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

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    Aduka

    Everything isnt working out for me. Early this morning my mom has yelled at me for more than 2 hours repeating the same stuff. Few days ago we had a big family gathering and went out for dinner. I personally think I can be a good talker and a guy that socializes but whenever im around family i cant seem to talk to them so i usually just sit there. The reason is because my mom keeps watching me if i do anything stupid while people talk to me, and once in awhile she makes things up and tells everyone in the family how stupid of a son i am. So that leaves me feeling like im the weird kid that doesnt talk. When a person started talking to me, my mom starred at me and just right away said to me, 'straighten your back, stop being so dumb'. Thats when i quit even trying to talk, so basically from now on, to my family im literally looked as the retarded one. Whenever we have family meetings i can never talk, i only greet and thats it. Later, I had a talk with my mom saying that im a pretty good speaker to other people but.. how i cant speak in front of any family memebers because of how they looked at me now. She refused to understand me and kept going on how stupid i am.I do good in school but she never apperciates it. She still thinks im useless and will never find a job, she keeps telling me. So now in my head i keep that in me and thats what i think now. Only I know that i am a good person and talented inside because I know myself the best. My friends also think the same. But now i dont know what to think, my family has put too much pressure on me. From now on, as we go to family dinners again, its just getting worse, im becoming more of a void.

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    Aduka

    Thanks Kor, but is it fine if I do pinch them together and pull apart? Will it still work fine? Because I feel more comfortable that way than putting my fingers in my skin and pull apart...

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    Aduka

    My way of stretching is pinching the 2 sides of the skin (the tip of it) and pull away. And i didnt know if i erect it should automatically move behind the head. Is it fine if I have to do it manually? cause if not im VERY far from my goal... and also the head is too sensitive at the moment if It just comes out everytime i erect... i wonder if the sensitivity will die down>?

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    Aduka

    well i started doing the proper steps of stretching the skin thanks to u guys. But i noticed few weeks back when i stretched it for a Very long time to the point where i could almost expose the whole head while flaccid.. but the next day it became just as tight as it was before i stretched it. So if i stretch my skin for lets say 3 months or so does that mean I can stop right stretching it when I reach the 3 month point? Or do I have to keep stretching it everday of my life to prevent it from becoming tight again? THanks again for the adive.

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    Aduka

    Ah thank you so much... cause I dont plan on having intercourse till i get married, and hopefully my wife will also be a virgin. So there is no chance of us getting any diseases?

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    Aduka

    sigh... do i gotta keep poking at it till it gets used to the feeling,...

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    Aduka

    Like i know if some1 has the disease they can pass it on, but is it possible for 2 virgins who never had any intercourse generate the disease? and how?

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    Aduka

    I have 1 more question, earilier I wanted to clean some precum so i pulled the skin back a bit and used a tissue and the SLIGHTEST touch on head would hurt sooo much! So how am I suppose to have intercourse if it hurts so much even if I slightly touch the head? Any solutions besides constantly working with it because its realllly sensitive

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    Aduka

    what if I dont use 1.. like only intercourse with my future wife?

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