Firstly, this may sound like a totally stupid question.
Ive been to alot of house paerties, and when im drunk I just go round finding all cans and bottles that have booze in and drink them.
However, I was wandering if it was possible to catch some STD like chlamydia from these cans.
Ill set the scene...
Say if some girl had been giving a hand job to a guy with an STD, then the girl touched a can of beer, then I picked up the can of beer, and went to the toilets (held my penis whilst peeing). Would it be possible to get an STD from this?
It probably cant, or is highly unlikely, but i'd just like to be put out of my miery. I dont know why but I just all of a sudden thought today I may actually have an STI allthough I have never had penertrative sex!
Im 18 and I think I may have slight OCD.
Im not 100% sure that I do but I often check things a few times to see if I have done what I was meant to. For example, after I use the oven, I check about 5 times if I have turned the dial right to 0 (off). Also, if I go downstairs at night and turn on a light, then when I go back up stairs, I always go downstairs again later to check if I have turned off the light I had on before. I can do this several times some nights too. I check if I have locked the door several times too, especially at night. I sometimes even check the toaster a few times after making toast to check if its still not still trying to toast nothing (because ive taken the toast out and eaten it)
I havent been in any trauma's such as house fires, burglery's or anything, so I know it wont be down to that.
Is it possible I have mentally just got into a way of thinking this is the way to do things because my dad always tells me to turn lights off when not in use, make sure the oven is off etc.
Is it a common thing for late teen's to feel like this?
I dont want to tell my parents about it because it sounds a little silly to be honest. Is there anyway to get over this, or will I be like this all the time now?
Thanks in advance for replies
Edit - I have just thought of another thing I do. I have a USB pen drive that I take to school. I put it in my pocket after the lesson and for some reason I always go back to the computer I was at to check if I left it in there.
Thanks for the reply. I really apprecate it
I know I shouldnt let things like this bother me, but for some reason it does.
I dont even think I could talk to any of my few friends about feeling depressed to be honest, they would just probably tell a bunch of lie's to try and make me feel better.
Im 18 and I havent really felt as bad as I do now.
I never get girlfriends, but it's only started bothering me recently. I have had around 4 girlfriends, but these have all finished with me after about 2 weeks at the most and tell me im ugly after they have finished with me.
I know im ugly because in high school, every one used to say I was. It sounds stupid but recently I have even been brought to tears thinking about this.
When i am at places, I always see people staring at me and some even laughing. I cant see how ugly I am when looking in the mirror, but I can on photographs and home movies.
My best friend moved abroad last year, which is also making me feel depressed because I miss him.
I'm not close to my family, I dont know why, I guess its just not who I am being ale to talk to my family.
I only have about 4 people who I would call a friend. I only ever hang out with 2 of these people though.
I would never dream of resorting to cutting myself though, but I just dont know what to do and how to make myself feel better. It's an awful feeling.
Any help would be appreciated.
P.s. The only way I know how to deal with it all is by drinking alcohol. I'd like to cope a different way though
Thanks alot for the advice. I really apprecate it. Like you mentioned, I will keep working at it but I'll change the frequency of how often I do it to how frequent you suggested.
Yeah, I think there is only one gym near where I live, but I havent checked them out to see how much they charge for membership or whatever
edit - One thing I did notice was straight after I stop doing press up's my pecks look bigger, but after about 15 minutes, they look normal again. I dont know if this is an illusion or whatever
Im an 18 year old male who is 5"9 and weigh around 10 stone (according to google that is the equivalent of 140 pounds)
I used to eat lots of junk food to try and get fatter to convert to muscle but as that didnt work because I cant put on any weigt no matter how much I eat. After this, I started eating much more healthy. This doesnt seem to get me fater either.
I have hardly any chest muscle (pecks) at all, no matter how much working out I do. I try to do about 30 pressups every 3 or 4 days (I dont want to over do it) but nothing seems to happen.
Is it because im skinny and have no fat to convert to muscle? I would prefer to get a bit fatter and tone that up because skinny people who look muscly look quite sickening I find, where as people who look a bit fatter have a more curved kind of look to their muscles.
Does any one have any tips for me please? If you do that would be greatly appreciated!
im not really 100% sure what you mean, but i dont think your Frenulum sounds tight.
Im uncut, and its normal to just be able to pull past the head when errect. It all depends on such things like foreskin length. Thats probably why you have the bulge of foreskin, because you have a longer foreskin...
I just measured it now whilst on porn and i got:
length: 7.4 inches
girth: 5.3 inches
i dont know if its the same with any oither guys, but when ive been whacking off for a while and when im on porn, my penis gets bigger than just a normal errection i get
Im 17, I can retract my forskin but when im errect and pull back, it smells really musky and off putting. Is it normal to smell like this? I clean my glans and behing the glans at least twice a day, but it always carries on smelling.
Would it be better to clean the penis with baby wipes (those wet cloth things), or would this not be safe?
Thanks for clearing that up
Now i think about it, I dont think my foreskin was that tight, I think that i just thought it would get stuck behind the head due to that first experience.
Since yesterday, every time I piss i retract my forsekin (much easier aim now :P ) and also i have had an erection and got the foreskin over easily.
Its quite wierd to masurbate when pulled back
and I cant believe I was so scared to pull back for years and years