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    beaverball

    First off, I've been on this board before under the name Nighthawk88, but couldn't remember what e-mail I used and I forgot the password.Is there anywhere were you can go for free, or at least really cheap to get tested? I really don't want to have to go under my parents insurance, for the sake of keeping it from them, but I'm a college student so I don't have a lot of money. I'm asking because my girl friend (who was a virgin until I took it from her) had a sit down meeting with two of her friends at Planned Parenthood to ask questions. We'll out of those 3 im the only boyfriend that was sexually active before her, so she wants me to get tested. I don't have a problem with it, actually it would be a good thing and make me get to get tested. Before I was scared before that I would get some bad results back.I think that I have genital warts, but I'm not for sure. And my g/f has seen them (but had had her series of the HPV shots and a pap just last week) and we always use a condom. The biggest of the sore is at the base of my penis and holds true to the skin colored and like of looks "cauliflowered". Will I have to get it removed with Nitrogen? because I've heard that hurts like hell....are there any other ways that you can get rid of them with out a whole lot of pain? I cant be in pain right now because I play college baseball and we are starting practice, therefore have to wear a cup. So any pain around that area would be a serious world of hurt every time I throw a pitch.Thanks in advance.

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    beaverball

    first test came out negitive last night, but I know that I'm not out of the clear yet. If she doesn't have it by next week she is gonna take another....n we both agreed we are getting her on BC asap

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    beaverball

    ive been trying to get her to get over to planned parenthood to get birth control but when we decided that was the plan we both got slammed with practice schedules since she plays softball and i play baseball. Then when we were going to take her last week she thought that it would mess with her period too much and didn't want to go until this period was done. Her mom is a very religious lady and very conservative (spelling?) so that's why she was never on birth control before. And i've never had a condom break on me so of course it had to happen at the worst time.

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    beaverball

    how soon can a girl test for pregnancy? My g/f is about 3 days late right now, which she never is late, but its kind of starting to concern me. I know that it might be too early to tell if she has missed her period or not. We are pretty sure the only time that it could have happened was right after she ended her last period and we had a condom break right as I was pulling out to cum. I'm like 99% positive that none escaped, but that 1% is absolutely killing me right now to the point im losing sleep over it and its all i can think about in class. I'm a sophomore in college and she is a freshmen, so I kinda am trying to convince myself that she is just really stressed by the new experience of college and all the crappy food that we have to eat. Thanks in advance for the input.

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    beaverball

    Alright so lately in the past 4 or 5 days ive noticed that my cum has gotten a TON thicker....I use to be able to pinch it off and create the shoot effect, but now I cant even do that n my old girlfriend use to love that. Is it normal that it changes thickness or is somethin up?

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    beaverball

    Ok so ive been having this problem lately. I was with a girl for a year and a half, and we jus reciently broke it off. We had a long healthy sexual relationship where I was almost always able to get there through sex. However I've come into a new relationship and we have started having sex...the problem is that after 6 or 7 times with her I still have never been able to get there. We don't use condoms, yeah I know preach to me or whatever, but i dont have the greatest sensitivity and beacuse of that if I use a condom I never ever get there. She seems to be enjoying herself in sex and I do too but it feels like every time im about to get there my dick starts to go soft and its really starting to upset me, so i pull out real quick and act like i got there to make her happy. The only difference between the two girls is that i can tell the old girlfriend was quite a bit tighter, but i dont think that has anything to do with it. Please help because its only a matter of time before my girl finds out and i dont want her to get upset. Thanks.I dunno if this matters really or not but our sex has lasted between 20 min (at someone elses house) and an hour....

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    beaverball

    Ok so I have a girlfriend that i love very very dearly and this fall we will be heading off to college together. Well sunday we had sex for our first time together (neither of us are virgins...shes 17 and i just turned 18 monday) and it was absolutely amazing just we were under time constraints with her rents coming home soon....any ways she came over tuesday and things got going and we were having sex again and ive realized i just cant feel with the sensitivity that i think that i should have....and all in all i have never cum while having sex, ive had to use my hand in front of her but i kno she is frustrated as well as i am because i cant cum while having sex or while getting head....and thats another thing is that i cant even cum then....what is wrong with me? i need help and fast because shes absolutely amazing and the love of my life but i hate for her to be frustrated because i cant cum for her without using my own assistance......any suggestions are welcome!! thanks in advance!nighthawk88

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    beaverball

    But like i said i really cant do anything about it because with the BC pill issue that i talked to her about turned into a huge deal that they affect her moods and her ability and will to play soccer so yeah i dunno really and like the arguement almost turned into us breaking up and i def dont want that because yes we have only been dating for 2 months, but we have known each other for ever, i love her so much and she means the world to me so like i would rather go condom then not at all.....we'll have to try the no masturbation for awhile n see if that helps and what not.....anyone else got an idea of what i can do to acomplish cummin with her?

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    beaverball

    Hey i miss read something....i ment she is active as in sports and running.....also she is not my first first but she is the first in over 2 years....i lost my verginity when i was 14 to my girl of 2 years at that time when she was forced to move 3 hours away and was later involved in a head on collision with a drunk driver where she didnt make it through.....but this one is only my second but my first i was able to cum but then again i was SO excited i only lasted about 15 min then.....i think its kinda physological type thing but i guess i jus gotta keep my hand away from there and see if tomorrow night we have sex which is prolly a no because i dunno when we will get to be alone really but i dunno for sure if not i have to keep from doing it all next week to see if next week if we have sex to see if i can acctually cum....

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    beaverball

    I have talked to her about the BC pills as a procautionary thing along with condoms but they screw with her emotions totally and shes a well accomplished varsity soccer player since 8th grade (we are both juniors) and as is she only has her period once every 2-3 months because she is SO active...so the no condom is out of the question def. and yes she is my first, however im not hers, i know of 2 long term relationships (over a year) that she has told me they had sex and once was unprotected when they were a little tipsy which kinda didnt make me too happy but i cant get frustrated about the past.....i know both the kids and i think that she is telling me the truth that those are the only 2 that she has had sex with because she has never lied to me before....and yes i can keep an errection for that long but like she always uses the excuse that she isnt flexable enough or stong enough to be on top to try something new....she was supprised that i was strong enough because im a skinny tall kid (im almost 6'5) with little muscle mass but they are toned and my shoulders and lower body are every stong because im a varsity baseball player.....i dunno really i'll have to try the no masturbating thing and jus kinda let it build up but then i get really ansy sometimes and i feel like im coming on to strong to her but shes not the shy type like the first time she gave me head we were leading to it and she jus looks at me and asked me if i wanted it instead of working her way down....lol i love her to death and she has told me that she loves me.....so i would like for her to kno that she is pleasing me it sounds weird i know but i jus kinda want to prove to her that she really is pleasing me

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