Thank you guys so much.
And as you guys say, yes, religion is the relationship between God and me. No one can give me an absolute answer but God Himself. It enlightens me and I think I should ask Him and be patient until I get an answer from Him.
I think I was kind of losing my patience because I was getting older and I did not want to be all by myself anymore. I wanted somebody to love, so my emotion got the better of me and I was confused.
Thank you guys!
clarksonOriginally Posted By: OldFolksI don't think you have anything to worry about it talking to him. Just tell him, "Ya know I felt the same way for a long time and just never had the balls to say anything." Unless your overtly hitting on him I don't think there will be to much worry about your intention in being honest.
As for the boyfriend not wanting him to hang around you I wouldn't worry about that at all. As long as you don't give him a reason to think your trying to get with his man you'll just be a friend.
Thank you for the response, OldFolks.
I will try to tell him next time he discusses the issue with me.
I really hope that he can be the one whom I can hide nothing from.
clarksonOriginally Posted By: sdpClear, white, yellow.. whatever.. it's all fine.. As long as it isn't green..
There was blood in my cum before.
Now no more blood in cum, so I am relived, but just found the above-mentioned symptom, so I was worried.
I think I am okay now.
My best was my roommate in university. Now he is working in Hong Kong and I am in another country.
He told me that he had feeling for a man about 8 months ago, which suprised me a lot as he had a nice girlfriend. And later he had a fight with that man and he had not seen him after that. He was confused at that time because he was not sure if he turned to gay or bisexual. I could not give him any clear answer either.
Last night, for the first time he admitted that he might be bisexual and was now targeting on getting a boyfriend.
He met a guy last week and he decided to tell me because he trusted me and knew I would support him.
Of course I do support him. As he is being so honest, instantly I had the urge to tell him that I think I may be bisexual and I am kind of attracted to men too, but I was afraid I would make things complicated.
Look, he wants to get a boyfriend. And if I tell him "Hey I am bisexual too". will it sound like "hey, you like men? Pick me"? And he has just started seeing someone, so if I say I am bisexual, his boyfriend-to-be may tell him to stay away from me because his boyfriend-to-be may be worried that I will steal my best friend away.
I wanted to tell him that I am bisexual when he told me and he was so honest with me last night.
But now I think I have to act really carefully to avoid misunderstanding and misinterpretation.
I appreciate his honesty and his trust. I am ashamed because I have been hiding my secret from him. Should I tell him so that I can have a friend whom I can tell everything?
Recently I have noticed that the last one or two squirt of my ejaculation was clear, not white.
Here is the sequence
1. Clear stuff came first at the beginning of ejaculation. (I think everyone is the same at this stage?)
2. Then white stuff/liquid, I suppose it was semen (sperm), squirted.
3. But by the end of ejaculation, instead of white liquid, clear stuff was squirted. Is it normal? I could feel that somewhere of my ball was liked squeezed to produce that clear stuff.
I am a bit worried as I think I did not squirt the clear stuff by the end of ejaculation. I think ejaculation should be all white (beside the first squirt). Is there something wrong with my body?
clarksonOriginally Posted By: NtroducingMyselfActually the prostate is not "Pretty deep up there", it's only about 2 inches inside the rectum. You just need to know where to find it and what you are feeling for
If you press up towards the penis from the inside of the rectum you should feel a walnut shaped/sized gland, that's the prostate.
I will agree, however, that if you are flying solo its easier to hit and stimulate the prostate by using a toy, but certainly not impossible
2 inches only? I did not know that.
And yes, using my own finger is quite tiring and my arm hurts when I do it for a longer time.
Getting a toy... hmm...
Oh dorm life. I really miss those days.
I lived in the dorm for 2 years. I had a roommate and we have never talked about masturbation. It may be because we are Chinese and it was not something we felt like talking about.
Anyway, since we did not mention anything about it, we did not have the "special arrangement" as the others above did.
But there was time when he went back home for weekend or vacation. Knowing that he would not be around and when I felt like doing it, I masturbated in my room alone. No problem at all
Just try to know his schedule and timetable, you will know when to do the right thing