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    CloudlessRane

    I am posting this in the teen life thread. Why? Because what I am about to write only applies to teens. When we mature and our brains repairs itself fully, personality indeed is 90% of attraction. But unfortunately, when we are under the age of 20, we tend to rely on our eyes for everything. What we see, we believe, instead of the other way. We have grown so dependent on our vision that we have formed a belief system, based on things we see. Confused? Maybe.

    But, anyway, I am just letting you know that teenage girls (and boys) strictly go for looks. Everything is based on first impressions, and your first impression is all about presentation- and guess what a presentation is? Well it has mostly to do with seeing something. So, what do guys do when they see a 'hot' girl? "Wow shes hot, I want to get to know her" or something more drogitory. But what do we do when we see an 'unattractive' girl? We probably don't repeat it in our heads, but its something along the lines of '...shes ugly'. Almost the same thing for teenage girls. The whole talk of 'its all about the personality' is complete Bullshit. Infact, looks and personality, walk hand-in-hand most of the time. People with good looks, who know it, and get complemented (or whatever) about it, tend to FEEL GOOD about themselves, which boosts their self-esteem. And you know what makes you have a good personality? Good self-esteem. If you are a 300 pound 15 year old, you do not get complemented about your looks, but you get teased about them, which LOWERS your self esteem, and thus you tend to 'cast' yourself away from people, get less friends, and develop a poor personality.

    Of course, there are guys and girls who look good to the opposite sex, but may be a jerk or an asshole at sometime, but it is rare, for them to be like that 'all of the time'. Everyone is an asshole, sometimes. That doesn't mean that have a bad personality. So, please refrain from using the line 'its personality, not looks' for teenage refrence, because in reality, saying that is just a big lie. You like their looks, and they have a good personality, because of their looks.
    -CR

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    CloudlessRane

    My thoughts (Since this thread is actually being moderated to keep the trolls off):

    Just consider these things, because my dear friend got pregnant, and thanks to me, she decided to have an abortion. Im not saying that you have to get one though.

    You may think that getting an abortion can seriously mess you up, which it can, but giving birth at your age can kill you.

    Are you ready to completely leave school and cherish your baby every moment from now on?

    Are you planning to go to college? Your chances of going wich a bady is slim to none.

    Is the father ready for a baby? Are YOU ready for a baby?

    IS having a baby important at this time of your life? Do you really need one right now?

    Just ask yourself those questions outloud, and hopefully you make a good choice. I personally think you should get an abortion, but do w/e you like.

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    CloudlessRane

    In reply to:

    Have anyone gotten a feeling, where you're at a turning point? Where, Your one person for ever but your changing and evolving. Then, one day, You get the sudden realization your not that person you used to be, But someone different? Like your not really a child anymore but you've just started on adulthood? You dont really feel like to doing the same stupid stuff you did as a kid anymore, and you have this sort of...calm. Knowing that your over the hill of being a kid, that your a true individual now.




    no.

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    CloudlessRane

    But... if you insist on me getting help, i'll need payments for it. I accept money orders and paypal- no joke.

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    CloudlessRane

    Why get professional help when I have Java Addict?

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    CloudlessRane

    Java, once again, fails again. You make my school counselor look professional. Thats pathetic, try again?

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    CloudlessRane

    haha... yeah... just tell me to run 30 miles a day and 'find something that makes you happier', yeah, sounds a lot like my school counselor.

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    CloudlessRane

    Lol... sure... ill take advice. But if you just tell me how low i really am, which isnt advice, ill just let you know that you aren't doing anything for me other then stating a simple fact. Ok, my life sucks, i know that already. Keep reinstating that and ill just give you the same shit. Its a vicous cycle.

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    CloudlessRane

    Bob : This was an attempt to help me? Come on now.

    SteveA : I didn't force you to read my thread. In a sense, you read it, because you care to an extent. So there is no need for me to make a blog about it. Just a thought.

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