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    Confused202

    I need advice on my current relationship. It's my first real relationship n we're coming up on 6 months. I usually never had a gf because I was too busy trying to focus on myself 21 btw. This girls gorgeous n a really good girl but I'm not sure if it's commitment issues but I feel like things are getting serious. I don't think it's smart for me personally to settle down with a girl while I'm so young and about to graduate ( she has 2 more years). I think having a girlfriend couldPotentially stop me from being able to focus completely on myself during the graduating college critical moment in my life. I feel like this point in time is crucial to not be distracted and be able to give your all to building a good base for a successful future. In my head I weigh this more important than having a girlfriend, and the fact it's getting serious I feellike I need to decide now what I want to do. It's difficult because she's such a great girl and I dont want to regret it afterwards n realize I messed up. I know I like her alot, but I'm not extremely crazy about her yet ( slow to love) but yeah just want to hear what people have to say thank you.

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    Confused202

    I'm 21 years old and I have this weird anxiety for taking a dump. I thin it started in college when I kinda planed my day when I had to shit so then my day revolved around when I was gonna take my next bathroom Stop. I used to never be able to use the bathroom in public places and slowly got over that fear. Also I have a shy bladder. Now anytime I go anywhere I have a fear I'm gonna have to shit and won't be able to make it home in time because I still have a fear of shitting in public places. This anxiety last the second I get in the car to leave n It makes my stomach feel like I have to shit but when I get home I'm fine. Also it affects me when I go out and I'm not driving I don't have a way to leave whenever I want if I need to use the bathroom so it makes me want to never go out. Even when I go on dates I plan some kind of excuse in case I need to use the bathroom. I'm sure it's one of those things I just need to get over n stop fearing public bathroom but I don't know how to calm myself. If anyone can relate or tell me how to relax or how they got over their fear of public restrooms it would be a great help. I don't mind big public bathrooms but if it's a single I just can't do it. Thank you

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    Confused202

    Alright I will give that a shot. Thank you for your help your the best!

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    Confused202

    Hey thanks for replying I didn't expect a reply so quickly. I think I've boiled it down to the cause. Before when I learned about sex i always thought i'd wear a condom no problem what's the big deal. Well I had sex with this girl and everything was fine but I lost my hard on so I tookthe condom off and everything went back to normal. Now when I try to use condoms i instantly lose my hard on . and it'sembarrassing so I stopped using them and had a pregnancy scare with a girl . So now I don't feel like I can perform well unless I don't wear a condom . but after the scare I want to wear a condom cause it's not worth the risk. I use regular Trojan condoms but can't figure out why it keeps hapening. Any thoughts? Is it all mental?

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    Confused202

    Hello I'm new to this website and figured it's be the best place for help. I just have a problem I think..

    I'm almost 20 and this problem has been bugging me for a while. I typically don't officially date girls alot because I believe I'm still young and shouldn't be getting settled down as not to constrict my future goals with school jobs etc. But i still have those sexual Urges that I need to fulfill. I have friends that are girls that will do stuff with me as to fulfill those needs n were just friends but for some reason we can talk about meetn up and I'll be all excited but when
    the day comes I tend to blow them off n make an exscuse. For some reason I feel bad doing stuff with a girl like guilty. But I feel like I should be happy that I'm lucky enough to have these friends because typically girls don't do that. I feel like I shouldn't feel guilty because it's an agreement between me and the girl n it's just fun. Nothings wrong with fun right? But then why do I feel guilty. It's not like it's happening every week it's just a rare occasion that at the time I can't pass up. But I end up doing it anyway. Iuno sorry If this went in circles I was having trouble wording it. Any help would be much apprecited.

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