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    croix

    thnx i think i just over analyze things... and for the most part i remember when i did those self-pics at that age thats the real turn-on!

    you all are great! thanx for the advice.

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    croix

    i dont think it's wise... i think i seen men get arrest for just sending a pic of their junk to underage girls?!

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    croix

    i'm in my late twenties and in a deeply committed relationship with my live-in girlfriend. but a few months ago i was masturbating to (straight/girl on guy) internet porn, and accidentally landed on a site with 18-19yo boy's amateur self-shot pics. i found myself even more aroused and have been masturbating to it ever since. i dont understand why this turns me on?! i mean, i would never have sex with a guy; and i dont want to have sex with the guys on this site. it just turns me on and i dont know if somethings wrong with me?! does this mean i might be gay!? should i tell my gf so she dont accidentally catch me?! is there anything wrong with me doing this?! should i stop!?

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    croix

    well we're just getting to the good part of the relationship. so i think there's still a long rocky complicated road ahead. and i'm not the type of person that will fold under pressure. so thnx for the advice. it's appreciated.

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    croix

    i'm just wondering how am i suppose to treat her son (whose 5). it's not like i can treat him like my own, cos i dont have my own child. i have nephews. but like i dont have to get on to them, or do anything other than play and have a good time with them. also, i dont wanna be seen as an mean step father or anything like that. mainly cos this relationship seems to be moving toward a serious note. not that we're rushing things. we just see eye to eye on a lot of things. though there are a couple of things that we disagree on. but of course, that's to be expected. i've just been use to all those girls that were shallow and superficial. and try too hard to be about something. she's not and she also moving in the same direction as i am. which i might add is very hard to find. granted she's not anywhere near the looks of my ex's but that's not a must in my eyes. i just have a good feeling about her. i never met anyone as well grounded in train of thought as she is. i mean she isnt trying to reach for anything that she dont need. unlike the lot of girls i'd seen in the past. she herself is wondering why i'm not trying to jump her bones or impress her with stupid antics like the guy's that chased her in the past. and i feel like i'm getting too old to be trying to impress her with trying to be a certain way. (it's feeling more natural this way anyhow) i'm just not for sure how to treat her kid. b'cos, so far this is feeling a lot like the last serious relationship i had. and if thats the case then i wanna start out on the right foot with her son... i've just never had to deal with this type of situation b4. will it just come to me naturally?

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    croix

    well i know it's not selfish on her part.... any woman that puts anyone other than their kid first would be a bad parent in my eyes. it's selfish on my part... i'm not trying to compete with her child for first place in her heart...thats unrealistic! also, as for ruling out any woman with kids...well that's just close minded and shallow. which i 'try' not to be (not to say that i see my self as being) i just wanna know if there's anyone out there that has been where i am now, and how things worked out. cause i can except that in our relationship we'll both (along with the baby-daddy) have to put the concern of their child first. i just have this apprehension that i wanna get over cause i'm a grown adult and am will to except things for what they are...i have to be right? i just wanna be able to hear from someone else what to expect. cos all this is new to me. and i'm willing to put forth all the effort i can muster. iguess i really asked the wrong questions in the original post. i just wanna hear from someone that has been, or is, in a relationship with someone with a kid/kids and has no kids of their own... not, well i've known someone... or i heard that... blah blah blah.

    thanks starfish for your reply....i'll pm as soon as i get a chance. cheerio!

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    croix

    this is directed for some of the older crowd on here. so if you've ever been with someone that already had a child prior to you starting a relationship with them, then i'd love it if you'd share your experiences/advice.

    okay, i've been seeing this girl for about three and a half weeks... she has one son. i'm really feeling this girl and all. but like her having a son with someone else, kinda ties her to the baby daddy and keeps her from being able to just pick up and go anytime she wants. i dont want to leave her just b'cos she has a kid. but i dont really like the inconveiniance of us not being able to see each other as often as we could. man i wanna be first with any girl that i'm with (until we have kids together then yes put the children first at all cost) and if they have a kid(s) then i know i'd never be first in their heart. i know it's selfish of me but i'm just not comfortable with stepping into a ready-made-family, sort of speak. so my question is. how can i get over this selfish feeling? and if i'm feeling this way should i even be persuing this relationship?

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    croix

    are you nervous? some times anxiety can play a roll in that...

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    croix

    sometimes it 'can be' the artificial coloring and/or flavoring that is used on certain cereals.....

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